al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1992
✧ The Husband's Right Over the Woman
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وَقَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ: حَدَّثَنَا جَعْفَرُ بْنُ عَوْنٍ، ثَنَا رَبِيعَةُ بْنُ عُثْمَانَ، عَنْ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ يَحْيَى بْنِ حَبَّانَ، عَنْ نَهَارٍ، عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ ؓ قَالَ:
إِنَّ رَجُلًا أَتَى بِابْنَةٍ لَهُ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، هَذِهِ ابْنَتِي، وَأَبَتْ أَنْ تَتَزَوَّجَ، فَقَالَ لَهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ: « أَطِيعِي أَبَاكِ ». كُلُّ ذَلِكَ تَرَدُّ عَلَيْهِ مَقَالَتَهُ، فَقَالَتْ: وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ، لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ حَتَّى تُخْبِرَنِي: مَا حَقُّ الزَّوْجِ عَلَى امْرَأَتِهِ ؟ فَقَالَ ﷺ: « لَوْ كَانَ بِهِ قَرْحٌ، أَوِ ابْتَدَرَ مَنْخِرَاهُ دَمًا وَصَدِيدًا، ثُمَّ لَحَسْتِيهِ بِلِسَانِكِ - مَا أَدَّيْتِ حَقَّهُ ». فَقَالَتْ: وَالَّذِي بَعَثَكَ بِالْحَقِّ لَا أَتَزَوَّجُ أَبَدًا، فَقَالَ ﷺ: « لَا تُنْكِحُونَهُنَّ إِلَّا بِإِذْنِهِنَّ
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Chain of narrators
- Abū Bakr
- Jaʿfar b. ʿAwn
- Rabīʿah b. ʿUthmān
- Muḥammad b. Yaḥyá b. Ḥabbān
- Nahār
- Abū Saʿīd
✧ A man brought his daughter to the Messenger of God ﷺ and said: "O Messenger of God, this is my daughter, and she refuses to marry." The Messenger of God ﷺ said to her: "Obey your father." She kept rejecting his words. She said: "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will not marry until you tell me: what is the husband's right over his wife?" He ﷺ said: "If he had a wound, or his nostrils gushed blood and pus, and you licked it with your tongue, you would not have fulfilled his right." She said: "By the One who sent you with the truth, I will never marry." He ﷺ said: "Do not marry them off except with their permission."
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