Musannaf 'Abd al-Razzaq 6728
✧ Patience, weeping, and wailing
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عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ قَالَ: أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ قَالَ:
تُوُفِّيَتِ ابْنَةٌ لِعُثْمَانَ بْنِ عَفَّانَ بِمَكَّةَ، فَجِئْنَا لِنَشْهَدَهَا، أَوْ قَالَ: فَجِئْنَا لِنَحْضُرَهَا، فَحَضَرَهَا ابْنُ عُمَرَ وَابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ، فَقَالَ: إِنِّي لَجَالِسٌ بَيْنَهُمَا جَلَسْتُ إِلَى أَحَدِهِمَا، ثُمَّ جَاءَ الْآخَرُ فَجَلَسَ إِلَى جَنْبِي، فَقَالَ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عُمَرَ لِعَمْرِو بْنِ عُثْمَانَ وَهُوَ مُوَاجِهُهُ: أَلَا تَنْهَى عَنِ الْبُكَاءِ، فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ: إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ فَقَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ: قَدْ كَانَ عُمَرُ يَقُولُ بَعْضَ ذَلِكَ، ثُمَّ حَدَّثَ قَالَ: صَدَرْتُ مَعَ عُمَرَ مِنْ مَكَّةَ حَتَّى إِذَا كُنَّا بِالْبَيْدَاءِ إِذَا هُوَ بِرَكْبٍ تَحْتَ ظِلِّ شَجَرَةٍ، ثُمَّ قَالَ: اذْهَبْ فَانْظُرْ مَنْ هَؤُلَاءِ الرَّكْبُ، فَنَظَرْتُ فَإِذَا هُوَ صُهَيْبٌ فَأَخْبَرْتُهُ، قَالَ: فَادْعُهُ لِي، قَالَ: فَرَجَعْتُ إِلَى صُهَيْبٍ، فَقُلْتُ: ارْتَحِلْ فَالْحَقْ أَمِيرَ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ، فَلَمَّا أَنْ أُصِيبَ عُمَرُ دَخَلَ صُهَيْبٌ يَبْكِي يَقُولُ: وَا أَخَاهُ وَا صَاحِبَاهُ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ: يَا صُهَيْبُ تَبْكِي عَلَيَّ وَقَدْ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ: " إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ لَيُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ " قَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ: فَلَمَّا مَاتَ عُمَرُ ذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لِعَائِشَةَ، فَقَالَتْ: يَرْحَمُ اللهُ عُمَرَ، وَاللهِ مَا حَدَّثَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ أَنَّ اللهَ يُعَذِّبُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ بِبُكَاءِ أَحَدٍ، وَلَكِنْ قَالَ: " إِنَّ اللهَ يَزِيدُ الْكَافِرَ عَذَابًا بِبُكَاءِ أَهْلِهِ عَلَيْهِ " قَالَ: وَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ: وَحَسْبُكُمُ الْقُرْآنُ ﴿أَلا تَزِرُ وَازِرَةٌ وِزْرَ أُخْرَى ﴾قَالَ: قَالَ ابْنُ عَبَّاسٍ عِنْدَ ذَلِكَ: وَاللهُ أَضْحَكَ وَأَبْكَى، قَالَ ابْنُ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ: فَوَاللهِ مَا قَالَ ابْنُ عُمَرَ مِنْ شَيْءٍ
Translation
✧ A daughter of 'Uthman b. 'Affan died in Makkah, and we came to attend her funeral—or he said: we came to be present at it. Ibn 'Umar and Ibn 'Abbas attended. He said: I was sitting between them—I sat next to one of them, then the other came and sat beside me. 'Abdullah b. 'Umar said to 'Amr b. 'Uthman, facing him, 'Will you not forbid the weeping? For the Messenger of God ﷺ said, "Indeed, the deceased is punished by the weeping of his family over him."' Ibn 'Abbas said, 'Umar used to say some of that. Then he narrated, saying: I returned from Makkah with 'Umar, and when we were at al-Bayda', he saw a group of riders under the shade of a tree. He said, 'Go and see who these riders are.' I looked and found it was Suhayb, and I informed him. He said, 'Call him for me.' He said: I went back to Suhayb and said, 'Mount and catch up with the Commander of the Faithful.' When 'Umar was stabbed, Suhayb entered weeping and saying, 'O my brother, O my companion!' 'Umar said, 'O Suhayb, do you weep over me, when the Messenger of God ﷺ said, "Indeed, the deceased is punished by the weeping of his family"?' Ibn 'Abbas said: When 'Umar died, I mentioned that to 'A'isha, and she said, 'May God have mercy on 'Umar. By God, the Messenger of God ﷺ did not say that God punishes the believers by anyone's weeping, but he said, "Indeed, God increases the disbeliever in punishment by the weeping of his family over him."' She said: And 'A'isha said, 'Sufficient for you is the Quran: "No bearer of burdens will bear the burden of another."' He said: Ibn 'Abbas said at that, 'By God, He made [us] laugh and He made [us] weep.' Ibn Abi Mulayka said: By God, Ibn 'Umar did not say anything.
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