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العربية

al-Sunan al-Kubra (al-Nasa'i) 1985

✧ Prohibition of crying over the dead

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أَخْبَرَنَا عُتْبَةُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ الْمَرْوَزِيُّ قَالَ قَرَأْتُ عَلَى مَالِكِ بْنِ أَنَسٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ جَابِرٍ بْنِ عَتِيكٍ أَنَّ عَتِيكَ بْنَ الْحَارِثِ وَهُوَ جَدُّ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ أَبُو أُمِّهِ أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ جَابِرَ بْنَ عَتِيكٍ

أَخْبَرَهُ أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ «جَاءَ يَعُودُ عَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ ثَابِتٍ فَوَجَدَهُ قَدْ غُلِبَ فَصَاحَ بِهِ فَلَمْ يُجِبْهُ فَاسْتَرْجَعَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ وَقَالَ» غُلِبْنَا عَلَيْكَ يَا أَبَا الرَّبِيعِ فَصَحْنَ النِّسْوَةُ وَبَكَيْنَ فَجَعَلَ ابْنُ عَتِيكٍ يُسْكِتْهُنَّ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «دَعْهُنَّ فَإِذَا وَجَبَ فَلَا تَبْكِينَّ بَاكِيَةٌ» قَالُوا وَمَا الْوجُوبُ يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ؟ قَالَ «الْمَوْتُ» قَالَتِ ابْنَتُهُ إِنْ كُنْتُ لَأَرْجُو أَنْ تَكُونَ شَهِيدًا قَدْ كُنْتَ قَضَيْتَ جِهَازَكَ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ إِنَّ اللهَ قَدْ أَوْقَعَ أَجْرَهُ عَلَى قَدْرِ نِيَّتِهِ وَمَا تَعُدُّونَ الشَّهَادَةَ؟ قَالُوا الْقَتْلُ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ قَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ «الشَّهَادَةُ سَبْعٌ سِوَى الْقَتْلِ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ الْمَطْعُونُ شَهِيدٌ وَالْمَبْطُونُ شَهِيدٌ وَالْغَرِقُ شَهِيدٌ وَصَاحِبُ الْهَدْمِ شَهِيدٌ وَصَاحِبُ ذَاتِ الْجَنْبِ شَهِيدٌ وَصَاحِبُ الْحَرْقِ شَهِيدٌ وَالْمَرْأَةُ تَمُوتُ بِجُمْعٍ شَهِيدَةٌ»

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. ʿUtbah b. ʿAbdullāh b. ʿUtbah al-Marwazī
  2. Mālik b. Anas
  3. ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAbdullāh b. Jābir b. ʿAtīk
  4. ʿAtīk b. al-Ḥārith / Jad ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAbdullāh Abū Ummih
  5. Jābir b. ʿAtīk

✧ He informed him that the Prophet ﷺ came to visit Abdullah b. Thabit and found that he had been overcome (by death). He called out to him but he did not answer, so the Messenger of Allah ﷺ uttered the istirja' and said: "We have been overcome concerning you, O Abu al-Rabi'." The women cried out and wept, and Ibn Atik began silencing them. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Leave them. But when it becomes obligatory, no woman should weep." They said: "What is the obligation, O Messenger of Allah?" He said: "Death." His daughter said: "I had hoped that you would be a martyr, for you had prepared your equipment." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Indeed, Allah has determined his reward according to his intention. What do you consider martyrdom?" They said: "Being killed in the way of Allah." The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Martyrdom is seven besides being killed in the way of Allah: the one who dies of plague is a martyr, the one who dies of a stomach ailment is a martyr, the one who drowns is a martyr, the one who dies under debris is a martyr, the one who dies of pleurisy is a martyr, the one who dies by burning is a martyr, and a woman who dies in childbirth is a martyr."

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