al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1041
✧ The Permission to Weep for the Deceased
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وَقَالَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ: حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ هَاشِمٍ، حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي لَيْلَى، عَنْ عَطَاءٍ، عَنْ جَابِرٍ ؓ قَالَ:
أَخَذَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ بِيَدِ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ عَوْفٍ ؓ... فَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ فِي قَضِيَّةِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ ابْنِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ قَالَ: إِنَّمَا هَذِهِ رَحْمَةٌ، وَمَنْ لَا يَرْحَمْ لَا يُرْحَمْ، يَا إِبْرَاهِيمُ، لَوْلَا أَنَّهُ أَمْرٌ حَقٌّ، وَوَعْدٌ صِدْقٌ، وَسَبِيلٌ نَأْتِيهِ، وَأَنَّ أُخْرَانَا سَيَلْحَقُ أُولَانَا لَحَزِنَّا عَلَيْكَ حُزْنًا أَشَدَّ مِنْ هَذَا، وَإِنَّا بِكَ لَمَحْزُونُونَ، تَبْكِي الْعَيْنُ، وَيَحْزَنُ الْقَلْبُ، وَلَا نَقُولُ مَا يُسْخِطُ الرَّبَّ
Translation
Chain of narrators
- Abū Bakr
- ʿAlī b. Hāshim
- Ibn Abū Laylá
- ʿAṭāʾ
- Jābir
✧ The Messenger of Allah ﷺ took 'Abd al-Rahman b. 'Awf ؓ by the hand... and he mentioned the hadith concerning the affair of Ibrahim, the son of the Prophet ﷺ. He said: 'This is only mercy. Whoever does not show mercy will not be shown mercy. O Ibrahim, were it not that it is a true matter, a truthful promise, and a path we all must take, and that our latter ones will join our former ones, we would have grieved over you with grief stronger than this. And indeed we are grieved over you. The eye sheds tears, the heart grieves, and we do not say what displeases the Lord.'
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- Abū Zakariyyā Yaḥyá b. Sharaf al-Nawawī
ومحمد بن عبد الرحمن بن أبي ليلى ضعيف
machine translationMuḥammad b. ʿAbd al-Raḥmān b. Abī Laylā is weak (ḍaʿīf).
in المطالب العالية, p. 1041
Other narrations of this report
Sunan an-Nasa'i 1868Musannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah 12249al-Sunan al-Kubra (al-Bayhaqi) 7251al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1042al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1043al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1046
Narrators
- Companion (ṣaḥābī)d. al-Haytham b. ʿAdī said, and Khalīfah b. Khayyāṭ in some reports from them: 68 AH. Abū Sulaymān b. Zabr said: 72 AH. Muḥammad b. Saʿd said, and al-Haytham b. ʿAdī in another report: 73 AH. Muḥammad b. Yaḥyā b. Ḥabbān said: 77 AH. Abū ʿAwn al-Madanī and others said: 78 AH. Abū Nuʿaym and Khalīfah b. Khayyāṭ in another report said: 79 AHجَابِرُ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ حَرَامٍ الْأَنْصَارِيُّصحابيعن
- Trustworthy (thiqah), a jurist (faqīh), virtuous, but he often narrated with omission of the Companion (irsāl); it is said that he changed (taghayyara) at the end of his life, though this was not frequent in himd. 112 AH, or 114 AH, or 115 AH, or 116 AH, or 117 AHعَطَاءٍثقة فقيه ، فاضل لكنه كثير الإرسال ، وقيل : إنه تغير بآخره ، ولم يكثر ذلك منهعن
- truthful (ṣadūq), of very poor memoryd. 148 AHابْنُ أَبِي لَيْلَىصدوق ، سيئ الحفظ جداحدثنا
- truthful (ṣadūq), inclined to Shīʿismd. 180 AH, or 181 AH, or 189 AHعَلِيُّ بْنُ هَاشِمٍصدوق يتشيعحدثنا
- trustworthy (thiqah), a memorizer (ḥāfiẓ), author of works (ṣāḥib taṣānīf)d. 235 AH, or 234 AHأَبُو بَكْرٍثقة حافظ ، صاحب تصانيف
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