al-Mustadrak (al-Hakim) 5614
✧ merits of Muhammad b. Talha b. Ubaidullah al-Sajjad.
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أَخْبَرَنِي عُبَيْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ أَحْمَدَ الْبَلْخِيُّ بِبَغْدَادَ مِنْ أَصْلِ كِتَابِهِ ثَنَا أَبُو إِسْمَاعِيلَ مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِسْمَاعِيلَ التِّرْمِذِيُّ ثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ أَيُّوبَ بْنِ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ عِيسَى بْنِ مُوسَى بْنِ طَلْحَةَ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ الْقُرَشِيُّ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي عَنْ جَدِّي عَنْ مُوسَى بْنِ طَلْحَةَ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللَّهِ قَالَ
خَطَبَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ أُمَّ أَبَانَ بِنْتُ عُتْبَةَ بْنِ رَبِيعَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ شَمْسٍ فَأَبَتْهُ فَقِيلَ لَهَا وَلِمَ؟ قَالَتْ إِنْ دَخَلَ دَخَلِ بِبَأْسٍ وَإِنْ خَرَجَ خَرَجَ بِبَأْسٍ قَدْ أَذْهَلَهُ أَمْرُ آخِرَتِهِ عَنْ أَمْرِ دُنْيَاهُ كَأَنَّهُ يَنْظُرُ إِلَى رَبِّهِ بِعَيْنَيْهِ ثُمَّ خَطَبَ الزُّبَيْرُ بْنُ الْعَوَّامِ فَأَبَتْهُ فَقِيلَ لَهَا وَلِمَ؟ قَالَتْ لَيْسَ لِزَوْجَتِهِ مِنْهُ الْإِشَارَةُ فِي قَرَامِلِهَا ثُمَّ خَطَبَهَا عَلِيٌّ فَأَبَتْ قِيلَ لَهَا وَلِمَ؟ قَالَتْ لَيْسَ لِزَوْجَتِهِ مِنْهُ إِلَّا قَضَاءُ حَاجَتِهِ وَيَقُولُ كَيْتَ وَكَيْتَ وَكَانَ وَكَانَ ثُمَّ خَطَبَهَا طَلْحَةُ فَقَالَتْ زَوْجِي حَقًّا قَالُوا وَكَيْفَ ذَاكَ؟ قَالَتْ إِنِّي عَارِفَةٌ بِخَلَائِقِهِ إِنْ دَخَلَ دَخَلَ ضَاحِكًا وَإِنْ خَرَجَ خَرَجَ بَسَّامًا إِنْ سَأَلْتُ أَعْطَى وَإِنْ سَكَتُّ ابْتَدَأَ وَإِنْ عَمِلْتُ شَكَرَ وَإِنْ أَذْنَبْتُ غَفَرَ فَلَمَّا أَنِ ابْتَنَى بِهَا قَالَ عَلِيٌّ «يَا أَبَا مُحَمَّدٍ إِنْ أَذِنْتَ لِي أَنْ أُكَلِّمَ أُمَّ أَبَانَ؟» قَالَ كَلِّمْهَا قَالَ فَأَخَذَ بِسَجْفِ الْحَجَلَةِ ثُمَّ قَالَ «السَّلَامُ عَلَيْكُمْ يَا عَزِيزَةَ نَفْسِهَا» قَالَتْ وَعَلَيْكَ السَّلَامُ قَالَ «خَطَبَكِ أَمِيرُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ فَأَبَيْتِيهِ» قَالَتْ قَدْ كَانَ ذَلِكَ قَالَ «وَخَطَبَكِ الزُّبَيْرُ ابْنُ عَمَّةِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَأَحَدُ حَوَارِيِّهِ فَأَبَيْتِ» قَالَتْ وَقَدْ كَانَ ذَلِكَ قَالَ «وَخَطَبْتُكِ أَنَا وَقَرَابَتِي مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَأَبَيْتِ» قَالَتْ وَقَدْ كَانَ ذَلِكَ قَالَ «أَمَا وَاللَّهِ لَقَدْ تَزَوَّجْتِ أَحْسَنَنَا وَجْهًا وَأَبْذَلَنَا كَفًّا يُعْطِي هَكَذَا وَهَكَذَا»
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Chain of narrators
- ʿUbaydullāh b. Muḥammad b. Aḥmad al-Balkhī Bibaghdād Min Aṣl Kitābih
- Abū Ismāʿīl Muḥammad b. Ismāʿīl al-Tirmidhī
- Sulaymān b. Ayyūb b. Sulaymān b. ʿĪsá b. Mūsá b. Ṭalḥah b. ʿUbaydullāh al-Qurashī
- my father
- my father
- Mūsá b. Ṭalḥah b. ʿUbaydullāh
✧ Umar b. al-Khattab proposed to Umm Aban bt. Utba b. Rabi'a b. Abd Shams, and she refused him. It was said to her, "Why?" She said, "If he enters, he enters with harshness, and if he goes out, he goes out with harshness. The affair of his hereafter has distracted him from the affair of his world, as if he were looking at his Lord with his two eyes." Then al-Zubayr b. al-Awwam proposed, and she refused him. It was said to her, "Why?" She said, "His wife has no say from him in her hair extensions." Then Ali proposed to her, and she refused. It was said to her, "Why?" She said, "His wife has nothing from him except the fulfillment of his need, and he says 'such and such' and 'it was and it was.'" Then Talha proposed to her, and she said, "A husband indeed." They said, "How is that?" She said, "I know his character. If he enters, he enters laughing, and if he goes out, he goes out smiling. If I ask, he gives, and if I am silent, he initiates. If I work, he thanks, and if I sin, he forgives." When he consummated the marriage with her, Ali said, "O Abu Muhammad, will you permit me to speak to Umm Aban?" He said, "Speak to her." He said: He took hold of the curtain of the bridal canopy, then said, "Peace be upon you, O one who holds herself dear." She said, "And upon you be peace." He said, "The Commander of the Believers proposed to you and you refused him." She said, "That happened." He said, "Al-Zubayr, the cousin of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and one of his disciples, proposed to you and you refused." She said, "And that happened." He said, "I proposed to you, with my kinship to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and you refused." She said, "And that happened." He said, "By Allah, you have married the most handsome of us and the most open-handed of us. He gives like this and like this."
Grades by grader
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Narrators
- Companion (ṣaḥābī)أُمُّ أَبَانَ بِنْتُ عُتْبَةَ الْعَبْشَمِيَّةُصحابيفي حكم العنعنة
- trustworthy (thiqah)d. 103 AHمُوسَى بْنِ طَلْحَةَ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللهِثقةعن
- عن
- حدثني
- حدثناtruthful (ṣadūq)d. بعد المائتين
- حدثناtrustworthy, a memorizer (thiqah ḥāfiẓ)d. 280 AH
- أخبرني من أصل كتابه
- d. 403 AH
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