al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (al-Tabarani) 21415
✧ al-Aswad b. Yazid, from Fatimah
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حَدَّثَنَا حَفْصُ بْنُ عُمَرَ بْنِ الصَّبَّاحِ الرَّقِّيُّ ثنا أَبُو مَعْمَرٍ عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ عَمْرِو بْنِ أَبِي الْحَجَّاجِ الْمِنْقَرِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ الْوَارِثِ حَدَّثَنِي الْحُسَيْنُ الْمُعَلِّمُ حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ بُرَيْدَةَ حَدَّثَنِي عَامِرٌ الشَّعْبِيُّ أَنَّ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ حَدَّثَتْهُ قَالَتْ
نَكَحْتُ حَفْصَ بْنَ الْمُغِيرَةِ وَهُوَ مِنْ خِيَارِ شَبَابِ قُرَيْشٍ فَلَمَّا تَأَيَّمْتُ خَطَبَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَوْفٍ فِي نَفَرٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَخَطَبَنِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ عَلَى مَوْلَاهُ أُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ وَكُنْتُ قَدْ حُدِّثْتُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ «مَنْ أَحَبَّنِي فَلْيُحِبَّ أُسَامَةَ» فَلَمَّا كَلَّمَنِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ قُلْتُ أَمْرِي بِيَدِكَ فَأَنْكِحْنِي مَنْ شِئْتَ فَقَالَ «انْتَقِلِي إِلَى أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ وَأُمُّ شَرِيكٍ امْرَأَةٌ غَنِيَّةٌ عَظِيمَةُ النَّفَقَةِ فِي سَبِيلِ اللهِ يَنْزِلُ عَلَيْهَا الضِّيفَانُ» فَقُلْتُ سَأَفْعَلُ قَالَ «لَا تَفْعَلِي فَإِنَّ أُمَّ شَرِيكٍ امْرَأَةً كَثِيرَةً الضِّيفَانِ وَإِنِّي أَكْرَهُ أَنْ يَسْقُطَ عَنْكِ خِمَارُكِ أَوْ يَنْكَشِفَ الثَّوْبُ عَنْ سَاقَيْكِ فَيَرَى الْقَوْمُ مِنْكِ بَعْضَ مَا تَكْرَهِينَ وَلَكِنِ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى ابْنِ عَمِّكِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ» وَهُوَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي فِهْرٍ فِهْرِ قُرَيْشٍ وَهُوَ مِنَ الْبَطْنِ الَّذِي هِيَ مِنْهُ فَانْتَقَلْتُ إِلَيْهِ
Translation
Chain of narrators
- Ḥafṣ b. ʿUmar b. al-Ṣabbāḥ al-Raqqī
- Abū Maʿmar ʿAbdullāh b. ʿAmr b. Abū al-Ḥajjāj al-Minqarī
- ʿAbd al-Wārith
- al-Ḥusayn al-Muʿallim
- ʿAbdullāh b. Buraydah
- ʿĀmir al-Shaʿbī
- Fāṭimah b. Qays
✧ "I married Hafs b. al-Mughirah, and he was one of the best young men of Quraysh. When I became widowed, 'Abd al-Rahman b. 'Awf proposed to me along with a group of the Companions of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and the Messenger of Allah ﷺ proposed to me on behalf of his freedman Usamah b. Zayd. I had been told that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: 'Whoever loves me should love Usamah.' So when the Messenger of Allah ﷺ spoke to me, I said: 'My affair is in your hands; marry me to whomever you wish.' He said: 'Move to Umm Sharik' — and Umm Sharik was a wealthy woman who spent generously in the way of Allah and received many guests. I said: 'I will do so.' He said: 'Do not do so, for Umm Sharik is a woman with many guests, and I dislike that your headcovering should fall off or your garment be uncovered from your shins so that people see something of you that you dislike. Instead, move to your cousin 'Abd Allah b. 'Amr b. Umm Maktum' — and he was a man of Banu Fihr, the Fihr of Quraysh, from the same clan as her. So I moved to him."
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