al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (al-Tabarani) 19896
✧ Umm Habibah bt. Abi Sufyan bin Harb bin Umayyah bin Abd Shams bin Abd Manaf, the wife of the Prophet ﷺ her name is Ramla
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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الصَّائِغُ الْمَكِّيُّ ثنا يَعْقُوبُ بْنُ حُمَيْدِ بْنِ كَاسِبٍ ثنا مَرْوَانُ بْنُ مُعَاوِيَةَ الْفَزَارِيُّ ثنا عَبْدُ الْوَاحِدِ بْنُ أَيْمَنَ ثنا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ الْحَارِثِ بْنِ هِشَامٍ قَالَ قَالَتْ
أُمُّ سَلَمَةَ لَمَّا خَطَبَنِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ قُلْتُ لَهُ خِلَالٌ فِيٌّ ثَلَاثٌ أَنَا كَبِيرَةُ السِّنِّ وَأَنَا امْرَأَةٌ مُطَفَّلٌ وَأَنَا امْرَأَةٌ شَدِيدَةُ الْغَيْرَةِ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ «أَمَا السِّنُّ فَأَنَا أَكْبَرُ مِنْكِ وَأَمَّا الْأَطْفَالُ فَهُمْ إِلَى اللهِ وَرَسُولِهِ وَأَمَّا الْغَيْرَةُ فَأَدْعُو اللهَ فَيُذْهِبُهَا عَنْكِ» فَتَزَوَّجَهَا النَّبِيُّ ﷺ فَلَمَّا دَخَلَ عَلَيْهَا قَالَ «إِنَّ بِكِ وَبِأَهْلِكِ عَلَيَّ كَرَامَةً وَإِنِّي لَمْ أُسَبِّعْ لِأَحَدٍ مِنْ نِسَائِي وَإِنْ أُسَبِّعْ لَكِ أُسَبِّعْ لِنِسَائِي»
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Chain of narrators
- Muḥammad b. ʿAlī al-Ṣāʾigh al-Makkī
- Yaʿqūb b. Ḥumayd b. Kāsib
- Marwān b. Muʿāwiyah al-Fazārī
- ʿAbd al-Wāḥid b. Ayman
- Abū Bakr b. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. al-Ḥārith b. Hishām
✧ Umm Salamah: When the Messenger of Allah ﷺ proposed to me, I said to him: 'I have three shortcomings: I am advanced in age, I am a woman who has children, and I am a very jealous woman.' The Prophet ﷺ said: 'As for age, I am older than you. As for the children, they belong to Allah and His Messenger. As for jealousy, I will pray to Allah and He will remove it from you.' So the Prophet ﷺ married her. When he entered upon her, he said: 'You and your family have honor with me. I have not spent seven nights with any of my wives, and if I spend seven with you, I will spend seven with my other wives.'
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