Jami' al-Saghir / Jam' al-Jawami' (al-Suyuti) 2-3452b
"عَن ابن غرزة أَنَّهُ أَخَذَ بِيَدِ ابنِ أَرْقَمَ فَأدْخَلَهُ على امْرأتهِ فَقَالَ: أَتُبْغِضِينِى؟ قَالَتْ: نَعْم قَالَ لَهُ ابْنُ الأَرْقَم: مَا حَمَلَكَ عَلَى مَا فَعَلتَ؟ قَالَ: كثُرَت عَلى مَقَالَةُ النَّاسِ، فَأَتَى ابْنُ الأرْقَم عُمَرَ بنَ الخَطَابِ فَأخْبَرَه، فَأرْسَل إلَى امْرأتِهِ فَجاءَتْهُ وَمَعَها عَمَةٌ لَها مُنْكِرَةٌ، فَقَالَتْ: إنْ سَأَلَك فَقُولِى إِنَّهُ اسْتَحلَفَنِى فَكَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَكْذبَ، فَقَالَ لَهُما عُمَرُ: بَلَى فَلتَكْذِبْ إحْدَاكُنَّ وَلتُجْمِل، فَلَيْسَ كُلُّ البيوت تُبْنَى عَلَى الحُبِّ وَلِكَن مُعَاشَرَةٌ على الأَحْسَابِ وَالإِسلاَم".
Translation
Chain of narrators
- Ibn Ghrzh
- Akhadh Biyad Ibn Arqam Faʾdkhalah ʿLá Āmrʾth
- Atubghiḍīniá
- Naʿm
- Lah Ibn al-Arqam Mā Ḥamalak
- Mā Faʿalt
- Kthurat
- Maqālah al-Nās Faʾatá Ibn al-Rqam ʿUmar b. al-Khaṭāb Faʾkhbarah Faʾrsal Lá Āmrʾtih Fajāʾath and Maʿahā ʿAmah Lahā Munkirah
- n Saʾalak Faqūliá Innah Āstaḥlafaniá Fakariht
- Akdhb
Machine translation, not reviewed
It is narrated from Ibn Ghurzah that he took the hand of Ibn Arqam and brought him in to his wife and said: "Do you hate me?" She said: "Yes." Ibn Arqam said to him: "What led you to do what you did?" He said: "The talk of the people has increased against me." Ibn Arqam came to 'Umar ibn al-Khattab and informed him, so he sent for his wife, and she came to him with a paternal aunt of hers who disapproved. She said: "If he asks you, say that he made me swear, for I disliked to lie." 'Umar said to both of them: "Rather, let one of you lie and make it beautiful, for not every house is built on love, but on companionship, nobility, and Islam."
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Notes
ابن جرير
machine translationIbn Jarīr
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