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Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1163

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حَدَّثَنَا الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْخَلاَّلُ حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْجُعْفِيُّ عَنْ زَائِدَةَ عَنْ شَبِيبِ بْنِ غَرْقَدَةَ عَنْ سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الأَحْوَصِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي أَبِي

أَنَّهُ شَهِدَ حَجَّةَ الْوَدَاعِ مَعَ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَحَمِدَ اللَّهَ وَأَثْنَى عَلَيْهِ وَذَكَّرَ وَوَعَظَ فَذَكَرَ فِي الْحَدِيثِ قِصَّةً فَقَالَ أَلاَ وَاسْتَوْصُوا بِالنِّسَاءِ خَيْرًا فَإِنَّمَا هُنَّ عَوَانٌ عِنْدَكُمْ لَيْسَ تَمْلِكُونَ مِنْهُنَّ شَيْئًا غَيْرَ ذَلِكَ إِلاَّ أَنْ يَأْتِينَ بِفَاحِشَةٍ مُبَيِّنَةٍ فَإِنْ فَعَلْنَ فَاهْجُرُوهُنَّ فِي الْمَضَاجِعِ وَاضْرِبُوهُنَّ ضَرْبًا غَيْرَ مُبَرِّحٍ فَإِنْ أَطَعْنَكُمْ فَلاَ تَبْغُوا عَلَيْهِنَّ سَبِيلاً أَلاَ إِنَّ لَكُمْ عَلَى نِسَائِكُمْ حَقًّا وَلِنِسَائِكُمْ عَلَيْكُمْ حَقًّا فَأَمَّا حَقُّكُمْ عَلَى نِسَائِكُمْ أَلاَّ يُوطِئْنَ فُرُشَكُمْ مَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ وَلاَ يَأْذَنَّ فِي بُيُوتِكُمْ لِمَنْ تَكْرَهُونَ أَلاَ وَحَقُّهُنَّ عَلَيْكُمْ أَنْ تُحْسِنُوا إِلَيْهِنَّ فِي كِسْوَتِهِنَّ وَطَعَامِهِنَّ

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. al-Ḥasan b. ʿAlī al-Khalāal
  2. al-Ḥusayn b. ʿAlī al-Juʿfī
  3. Zāʾidah
  4. Shabīb b. Gharqadah
  5. Sulaymān b. ʿAmr b. al-Aḥwaṣ
  6. my father

“My father narrated to me that he witnessed the farewell Hajj with the Messenger of Allah. So he thanked and praised Allah and he reminded and gave admonition. He mentioned a story in his narration and he (the Prophet) said: “And indeed I order you to be good to the women, for they are but captives with you over whom you have no power than that, except if they come with manifest Fahishah (evil behavior). If they do that, then abandon their beds and beat them with a beating that is not harmful. And if they obey you then you have no cause against them. Indeed you have rights over your women, and your women have rights over you. As for your rights over your women, then they must not allow anyone whom you dislike to treat on your bedding (furniture), nor to admit anyone in your home that you dislike. And their rights over you are that you treat them well in clothing them and feeding them.”

Notes

  • قَالَ أَبُو عِيسَى هَذَا حَدِيثٌ حَسَنٌ صَحِيحٌ وَمَعْنَى قَوْلِهِ عَوَانٌ عِنْدَكُمْ يَعْنِي أَسْرَى فِي أَيْدِيكُمْ

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Zubair Ali ZaiSoundfawazahmed0, hadithunlocked, sunnah.com
Ahmad Muhammad ShakirHasanfawazahmed0
Bashar Awad MaaroufHasan Sahihfawazahmed0
Ibn ʿAbd al-BarrSoundin جامع الترمذي, p. 1211hadithunlocked
al-AlbaniGoodin صحيح الترمذي, p. 1163fawazahmed0, hadithunlocked

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Other narrations of this report

Narrators

  1. Companion (ṣaḥābī)
    عَمْرُو بْن الْأَحْوَص الْجُشَمِيّصحابي
    حدثني
  2. سُلَيْمَانَ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ الْأَحْوَصِمقبول
    عن
  3. trustworthy (thiqah)d. between 121 and 130 AH
    شَبِيبِ بْنِ غَرْقَدَةَثقة
    عن
  4. Trustworthy (thiqah), firmly reliable (thabt), a man of the Sunnah (ṣāḥib sunnah)d. 160 AH, or 161 AH, or 163 AH
    زَائِدَةَثقة ثبت ، صاحب سنة
    عن
  5. trustworthy (thiqah), devout (ʿābid)d. 203 AH, or 204 AH
    الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْجُعْفِيُّثقة عابد
    حدثنا
  6. trustworthy (thiqah), a memorizer (ḥāfiẓ), who authored worksd. 242 AH, also said: 243 AH
    الْحَسَنُ بْنُ عَلِيٍّ الْخَلَّالُثقة حافظ ، له تصانيف
    حدثنا
  7. trustworthy, a memorizer (thiqah ḥāfiẓ)d. 279 AH, in Ikmāl al-Tahdhīb: 275 AH
    التِّرْمِذِيُّثقة حافظ

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Commentaries

Dalīl al-Fāliḥīn (Ibn ʿAllān)
شرح مشكل الآثار
شرح مشكل الآثار
Tuḥfat al-Aḥwadhī (Mubārakpūrī)

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