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Mishkat al-Masabih 3145

Making a Marriage publicly known, asking Woman in Marriage, and the Condition laid down - Section 1

وَعَنْهُ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «لَا تَسْأَلِ الْمَرْأَةُ طَلَاقَ أُخْتِهَا لِتَسْتَفْرِغَ صَحْفَتَهَا وَلِتَنْكِحَ فَإِنَّ لَهَا مَا قُدِّرَ لَهَا»

Translation

He reported God’s Messenger as saying, “A woman must not ask to have her sister* divorced in order to deprive her of what belongs to her, but she must marry, because she will have what has been decreed for her." (Bukhari and Muslim.) * The word ‘sister’ is here used in a general sense. The tradition has been explained as referring to one of a man’s wives trying to get him to divorce another, but it probably refers to a woman whom the man has asked in marriage wanting him to divorce his wife before she marries him.

Grades by grader

Muhammad Muhyi al-Din Abd al-HamidSahihgraded on abudawud:2176fawazahmed0
MālikSoundgraded on malik:46-7hadithunlocked
Salim al-HilaliSahihgraded on malik:46-7fawazahmed0
Shuayb al-ArnautSahihgraded on abudawud:2176fawazahmed0
Zubair Ali ZaiSahih Bukhari (6601)graded on abudawud:2176fawazahmed0
al-AlbaniSoundgraded on abudawud:2176fawazahmed0, hadithunlocked, sunnah.com
al-BukhariSoundgraded on bukhari:6601hadithunlocked

Same hadith, other wordings

  • Muwaththa' Malik 46-7لاَ تَسْأَلِ الْمَرْأَةُ طَلاَقَ أُخْتِهَا لِتَسْتَفْرِغَ صَحْفَتَهَا وَلِتَنْكِحَ فَإِنَّمَا لَهَا مَا قُدِّرَ لَهَا
  • Sunan Abu Dawud 2176لاَ تَسْأَلِ الْمَرْأَةُ طَلاَقَ أُخْتِهَا لِتَسْتَفْرِغَ صَحْفَتَهَا وَلْتَنْكِحْ فَإِنَّمَا لَهَا مَا قُدِّرَ لَهَا
  • Shahih al-Bukhari 6601لاَ تَسْأَلِ الْمَرْأَةُ طَلاَقَ أُخْتِهَا لِتَسْتَفْرِغَ صَحْفَتَهَا وَلْتَنْكِحْ فَإِنَّ لَهَا مَا قُدِّرَ لَهَا