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al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1052

✧ Expelling the Wailing Women from the Houses and Rebuking Wailing

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إِسْحَاقُ: أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ، حَدَّثَنَا مَعْمَرٌ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنْ سَعِيدِ بْنِ الْمُسَيِّبِ، قَالَ:

لَمَّا مَاتَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ ؓ بُكِيَ عَلَيْهِ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ ؓ: إِنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ قَالَ: إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ يُعَذَّبُ بِبُكَاءِ الْحَيِّ، فَأَبَوْا إِلَّا أَنْ يَبْكُوا، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ ؓ لِهِشَامِ بْنِ الْوَلِيدِ: قُمْ، فَأَخْرِجِ النِّسَاءَ، فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ ؓ: أُحَرِّجُكَ، فَقَالَ عُمَرُ ؓ: ادْخُلْ، فَقَدْ أَذِنْتُ لَكَ، فَدَخَلَ، فَقَالَتْ عَائِشَةُ ؓ: أَمُخْرِجِي أَنْتَ يَا بُنَيَّ ؟ فَقَالَ: أَمَّا لَكِ فَقَدْ أَذِنْتُ لَكِ، فَجَعَلَ يُخْرِجُهُنَّ امْرَأَةً امْرَأَةً، وَهُوَ ؓ يَضْرِبُهُنَّ بِالدِّرَّةِ، فَخَرَجَتْ أُمُّ فَرْوَةَ، وَفَرَّقَ بَيْنَهُنَّ، أَوْ قَالَ: فَرَّقَ بَيْنَ النَّوَائِحِ

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Chain of narrators
  1. ʿAbd al-Razzāq
  2. Maʿmar
  3. al-Zuhrī
  4. Saʿīd b. al-Musayyib

✧ When Abu Bakr ؓ died, he was wept over. 'Umar ؓ said: 'The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "The deceased is punished because of the weeping of the living."' But they refused to stop weeping. 'Umar ؓ said to Hisham b. al-Walid: 'Stand up and expel the women.' 'A'ishah ؓ said: 'I adjure you!' 'Umar ؓ said: 'Enter, for I have permitted you.' He entered, and 'A'ishah ؓ said: 'Will you expel me, O my son?' He said: 'As for you, I have permitted you.' He began expelling them one by one, striking them with the whip. Umm Farwah came out, and he separated them, or he said: 'He separated the wailing women.'

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