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al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 1051

✧ The Permission to Weep for the Deceased

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حَدَّثَنَا زُهَيْرٌ، حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ الْمَخْزُومِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ بِلَالٍ، عَنْ عَبْدِ الْحَكِيمِ بْنِ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي فَرْوَةَ، عَنْ يَعْقُوبَ بْنِ عُتْبَةَ، عَنْ عُرْوَةَ، عَنْ عَائِشَةَ ؓ قَالَتْ:

إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ أَبِي بَكْرٍ ؓ لَمَّا تُوُفِّيَ بُكِيَ عَلَيْهِ، فَخَرَجَ أَبُو بَكْرٍ ؓ إِلَى الرِّجَالِ، فَقَالَ: إِنِّي أَعْتَذِرُ إِلَيْكُمْ مِنْ شَأْنِ أُولَاءِ، إِنَّهُنَّ حَدِيثَاتُ عَهْدٍ بِجَاهِلِيَّةٍ، سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ: إِنَّ الْمَيِّتَ يُنْضَحُ عَلَيْهِ الْجَمْرُ بِبُكَاءِ الْحَيِّ

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Zuhayr
  2. Muḥammad b. al-Ḥasan al-Makhzūmī
  3. Sulaymān b. Bilāl
  4. ʿAbd al-Ḥakīm b. ʿAbdullāh b. Abū Farwah
  5. Yaʿqūb b. ʿUtbah
  6. ʿUrwah
  7. ʿĀʾishah

✧ When 'Abdullah b. Abi Bakr ؓ died, he was wept over. Abu Bakr ؓ went out to the men and said: 'I apologize to you regarding these women. They are recently out of the era of ignorance. I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say: "The deceased is showered with burning coals because of the weeping of the living."'

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