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al-Mu'jam al-Kabir (al-Tabarani) 19379

✧ The Marriage of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ to Khadijah, Her Age, Her Death, and Some of Her Stories

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حَدَّثَنَا يُوسُفُ الْقَاضِي ثنا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ ثنا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ عَمَّارِ بْنِ أَبِي عَمَّارٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عَبَّاسٍ فِيمَا يَحْسَبُ حَمَّادٌ

أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ ذَكَرَ خَدِيجَةَ بِنْتَ خُوَيْلِدٍ وَكَانَ أَبُوهَا يَرْغَبُ أَنْ يُزَوِّجَهُ وَصَنَعَتْ طَعَامًا وَشَرَابًا وَدَعَتْ أَبَاهَا وَنَفَرًا مِنْ قُرَيْشٍ فَطَعِمُوا وَشَرِبُوا حَتَّى ثَمِلُوا فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ لِأَبِيهَا «إِنَّ مُحَمَّدَ بْنَ عَبْدِ اللهِ يَخْطُبُنِي قُمْ فَزَوِّجْهُ فَزَوَّجَهَا إِيَّاهُ فَخَلَّقَتْهُ وَأَلْبَسَتْهُ حُلَّةً وَكَذَلِكَ كَانُوا يَفْعَلُونَ بِالْآبَاءِ إِذَا زَوَّجُوا بَنَاتِهِمْ فَلَمَّا سُرِّيَ عَنْهُ السُّكْرُ نَظَرَ فَإِذَا هُوَ مُخَلَّقٌ وَعَلَيْهِ حُلَّةٌ» فَقَالَ مَا شَأْنِي؟ قَالَ فَقَالَتْ «زَوَّجْتَنِي مِنْ مُحَمَّدٍ» فَقَالَ أَنَا زَوَّجْتُكِ يَتِيمَ أَبِي طَالِبٍ لَا لَعَمْرِي فَقَالَتْ خَدِيجَةُ «أَمَا تَسْتَحْيِي تُرِيدُ أَنْ تُسَفِّهَ نَفْسَكَ تُخْبِرُ قُرَيْشًا وَالنَّاسَ أَنَّكَ كُنْتَ سَكْرَانًا فَلَمْ تَزَلْ بِهِ حَتَّى رَضِيَ»

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Yūsuf al-Qāḍī
  2. Sulaymān b. Ḥarb
  3. Ḥammād b. Salamah
  4. ʿAmmār b. Abū ʿAmmār
  5. Ibn ʿAbbās Fīmā Yaḥsab Ḥammād

✧ That the Messenger of Allah ﷺ mentioned Khadijah bint Khuwaylid. Her father desired to marry her to him. She prepared food and drink and invited her father and a group from Quraysh. They ate and drank until they became intoxicated. Then Khadijah said to her father: "Muhammad b. 'Abd Allah has proposed to me; arise and marry me to him." So he married her to him. She perfumed him and dressed him in a fine garment, for such was their practice with fathers when they gave their daughters in marriage. When the intoxication left him, he looked and saw himself perfumed and wearing a fine garment. He said: "What is the matter with me?" She said: "You married me to Muhammad." He said: "I married you to the orphan of Abu Talib? No, by my life!" Khadijah said: "Are you not ashamed? You want to make a fool of yourself, informing Quraysh and the people that you were drunk." She kept at him until he consented.

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