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al-Mu'jam al-Awsat 3134

✧ Bakr b. Sahl al-Dimyati

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حَدَّثَنَا بَكْرٌ قَالَ: نَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ أَبِي السَّرِيِّ الْعَسْقَلَانِيُّ قَالَ: نَا الْوَلِيدُ بْنُ مُسْلِمٍ قَالَ: نَا أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ عَبْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي مَرْيَمَ، عَنْ عَطِيَّةَ بْنِ قَيْسٍ الْكِلَابِيِّ قَالَ:

خَطَبَ مُعَاوِيَةُ بْنُ أَبِي سُفْيَانَ أُمَّ الدَّرْدَاءِ بَعْدَ وَفَاةِ أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ، فَقَالَتْ أُمُّ الدَّرْدَاءِ: إِنِّي سَمِعْتُ أَبَا الدَّرْدَاءِ يَقُولُ: سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ: أَيُّمَا امْرَأَةٍ تُوُفِّيَ عَنْهَا زَوْجُهَا فَتَزَوَّجَتْ بَعْدَهُ فَهِيَ لِآخِرِ أَزْوَاجِهَا وَمَا كُنْتُ لِأَخْتَارَكَ عَلَى أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ فَكَتَبَ إِلَيْهَا مُعَاوِيَةُ: فَعَلَيْكِ بِالصَّوْمِ فَإِنَّهُ مَحْسَمَةٌ

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Bakr
  2. Muḥammad b. Abū al-Sarī al-ʿAsqalānī
  3. al-Walīd b. Muslim
  4. Abū Bakr b. ʿAbdullāh b. Abū Maryam
  5. ʿAṭiyyah b. Qays al-Kilābī

✧ Muʿawiyah b. Abi Sufyan proposed to Umm al-Dardaʾ after the death of Abu al-Dardaʾ, and Umm al-Dardaʾ said: I heard Abu al-Dardaʾ say: I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say: “Any woman whose husband dies and she marries after him, she belongs to the last of her husbands.” And I would not choose you over Abu al-Dardaʾ. So Muʿawiyah wrote to her: “Then you must fast, for it is a means of cutting off desire.”

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