Shu'ab al-Iman (al-Bayhaqi) 7478
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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو الْحُسَيْنِ بْنُ بِشْرَانَ، نا عُثْمَانُ بْنُ أَحْمَدَ بْنِ السَّمَّاكِ، نا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ بَحْرٍ الْبَزَّازُ، حَدَّثَنِي مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ الْبَرْحَلَانِيُّ، عَنْ أَبِيهِ،
قَالَ: سَأَلْتُ بَشَرًا يَعْنِي ابْنَ الْحَارِثِ، عَنْ رَجُلٍ لَهُ أَبٌ بِالثَّغْرِ، وَلَهُ أُمٌّ بِبَغْدَادَ، وَأُمُّهُ تَنْهَاهُ أَنْ يَأْتِيَ أَبَاهُ، وَأَبُوهُ يُرِيدُ أَنْ يَأْتِيَهُ، وَيَكُونَ عِنْدَهُ أَيْضًا؟ قَالَ بِشْرٌ: سَأَلْتُ عَبْدَ اللهِ بْنَ دَاوُدَ عَنْ هَذَا فَقَالَ: " يُقِيمُ عِنْدَ أُمِّهِ، وَلَا يَأْتِي أَبَاهُ إِلَّا أَنْ تَأْذَنَ لَهُ أُمُّهُ " قُلْتُ لِبِشْرٍ: فَإِنَّ يَزِيدَ، نا عَنْ هِشَامٍ، عَنِ الْحَسَنِ، قَالَ: " لِلْأُمِّ ثُلُثَا الْبِرِّ، وَلِلْأَبِ الثُّلُثُ؟ " قَالَ بِشْرٌ: سَمِعْتُ فُضَيْلَ بْنَ عِيَاضٍ، يَذْكُرُ عَنْ هِشَامٍ، عَنِ الْحَسَنِ هَذَا الْحَدِيثَ، فَقُلْتُ لَهُ: فَحَدَّثْتُ بِهِ بَهْزَ بْنَ حَكِيمٍ فَقَالَ: " هَذَا فِي الْعَطِيَّةِ " وَقَالَ بِشْرٌ: " أَرَى الْأَبَ يَأْخُذُ مِنْ مَالِ ابْنِهِ إِذَا كَانَ يَحْتَاجُ مَا يَكْفِيهِ، وَالْأُمُّ أَيْضًا تَأْخُذُ بِقَدْرِ مَا تَحْتَاجُ، وَقَالَ: الْأَبُ وَالْأُمُّ فِي هَذَا سَوَاءٌ، وَأَمَّا فِي الْإِقَامَةِ فَأَنَا إِلَى الْأُمِّ أَمْيَلُ "
Translation
Chain of narrators
machine translationAbū al-Ḥusayn b. Bishrān informed us, (he said) ʿUthmān b. Aḥmad b. al-Sammāk narrated to us, (he said) Muḥammad b. ʿAlī b. Baḥr al-Bazzāz narrated to us, (he said) Muḥammad b. Ibrāhīm al-Barḥalānī narrated to me, from his father,
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He said: I asked Bishr, meaning Ibn al-Ḥārith, about a man whose father is at the frontier post and whose mother is in Baghdad. His mother forbids him to go to his father, while his father wants to come to him and also to have him with him. Bishr said: I asked ʿAbdullāh b. Dāwūd about this, and he said: "He should stay with his mother, and should not go to his father unless his mother permits him." I said to Bishr: Yazīd narrated to us from Hishām, from al-Ḥasan, who said: "The mother has two thirds of dutiful kindness, and the father has one third." Bishr said: I heard Fuḍayl b. ʿIyāḍ mention this ḥadīth from Hishām, from al-Ḥasan. I said to him: I narrated it to Bahz b. Ḥakīm, and he said: "This concerns gifts." Bishr said: "I hold that the father may take from his son's wealth, when he is in need, what suffices him, and the mother likewise takes according to what she needs." And he said: "The father and the mother are equal in this, but as for staying, I lean more towards the mother."
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