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Sunan an-Nasa'i 3237

Proposal of Marriage

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أَخْبَرَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سَلاَّمٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَارِثِ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ أَبِي قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حُسَيْنٌ الْمُعَلِّمُ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنُ بُرَيْدَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي عَامِرُ بْنُ شَرَاحِيلَ الشَّعْبِيُّ أَنَّهُ سَمِعَ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ وَكَانَتْ مِنَ الْمُهَاجِرَاتِ الأُوَلِ قَالَتْ

خَطَبَنِي عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ عَوْفٍ فِي نَفَرٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ مُحَمَّدٍ ﷺ وَخَطَبَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ عَلَى مَوْلاَهُ أُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ وَقَدْ كُنْتُ حُدِّثْتُ أَنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ قَالَ مَنْ أَحَبَّنِي فَلْيُحِبَّ أُسَامَةَ فَلَمَّا كَلَّمَنِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ قُلْتُ أَمْرِي بِيَدِكَ فَأَنْكِحْنِي مَنْ شِئْتَ فَقَالَ انْطَلِقِي إِلَى أُمِّ شَرِيكٍ وَأُمُّ شَرِيكٍ امْرَأَةٌ غَنِيَّةٌ مِنَ الأَنْصَارِ عَظِيمَةُ النَّفَقَةِ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ ﷻ يَنْزِلُ عَلَيْهَا الضِّيفَانُ فَقُلْتُ سَأَفْعَلُ قَالَ لاَ تَفْعَلِي فَإِنَّ أُمَّ شَرِيكٍ كَثِيرَةُ الضِّيفَانِ فَإِنِّي أَكْرَهُ أَنْ يَسْقُطَ عَنْكِ خِمَارُكِ أَوْ يَنْكَشِفَ الثَّوْبُ عَنْ سَاقَيْكِ فَيَرَى الْقَوْمُ مِنْكِ بَعْضَ مَا تَكْرَهِينَ وَلَكِنِ انْتَقِلِي إِلَى ابْنِ عَمِّكِ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ عَمْرِو بْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ وَهُوَ رَجُلٌ مِنْ بَنِي فِهْرٍ فَانْتَقَلْتُ إِلَيْهِ

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Muḥammad b. Salāam
  2. ʿAbd al-Ṣamad b. ʿAbd al-Wārith
  3. my father
  4. Ḥusayn al-Muʿallim
  5. ʿAbdullāh b. Buraydah
  6. ʿĀmir b. Sharāḥīl al-Shaʿbī
  7. Fāṭimah Bint Qays and Kānat Min al-Muhājirāt al-Uwal

'Amir bin Shurahbil Ash-Sha'bi narrated that he heard Fatimah bint Qais--who was one of the first Muhajir women-- say: 'Abdur-Rahman bin 'Awf proposed marriage to me, along with others of the Companions of Muhammad. And the Messenger of Allah proposed that I marry his freed slave, Usamah bin Zaid. I was told that the Messenger of Allah had said: 'Whoever loves me, let him love Usamah.' When the Messenger of Allah spoke to me I said: 'My affairs are in your hands; marry me to whomever you wish.' He said: 'Go to Umm Sharik.' Umm Sharik was a rich Ansari woman who used to spend a great deal in the cause of Allah, and she always had a lot of guests. I said: 'I will do that.' He said: 'Do not do that, for Umm Sharik has a lot of guests, and I would not like your Khimar to fall off, or your shins to become uncovered, and the people to see something of you that you do not want them to see. Rather go to your cousin (son of your paternal uncle) 'Abdullah bin 'Amr bin Umm Maktum, who is a man of Banu Fihr.' So I went to him."

Notes

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Other narrations of this report

Musannaf 'Abd al-Razzaq 12089al-Sunan al-Kubra (al-Bayhaqi) 14128al-Sunan al-Kubra (al-Bayhaqi) 14129al-Sunan al-Kubra (al-Bayhaqi) 15567

Narrators

  1. Fāṭimah bt. Qays al-Fihrīyah
    well-known Companion (female), among the first women emigrantsd. She lived until the caliphate of Muʿāwiyah.
    فَاطِمَة بِنْت قَيْس الْفِهْرِيَّةصحابية مشهورة وكانت من المهاجرات الأول
    سمع
  2. al-Shaʿbī
    Trustworthy (thiqah), well-known, a virtuous jurist (faqīh fāḍil)d. 103 AH, said by al-Haytham b. ʿAdī, and Yaḥyā b. Bukayr, Yaḥyā b. Maʿīn, 104 AH, said by Yaḥyā b. Maʿīn, and Ismāʿīl b. Mujālid, and Abū Nuʿaym, and Muḥammad b. ʿImrān al-Bajalī, and ʿUmar b. Shabīb al-Muslī, and ʿAbd Allāh b. Idrīs, 105 AH, said by Isḥāq b. Yaḥyā, Muḥammad b. ʿAbd Allāh b. Numayr, or: 106 AH, said by ʿAlī b. al-Madīnī, and ʿAmr b. ʿAlī, 107 AH, said by ʿAlī b. al-Madīnī, or: 109 AH, said by Ibn Ḥibbān, 110 AH, said by ʿAlī b. ʿAbd Allāh al-Tamīmī
    عَامِرُ بْنُ شَرَاحِيلَ الشَّعْبِيُّثقة ، مشهور ، فقيه فاضل
    حدثني
  3. ʿAbdullāh b. Buraydah
    trustworthy (thiqah)d. 105 AH, or 115 AH
    عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ بُرَيْدَةَثقة
    حدثني
  4. Ḥusayn al-Muʿallim
    trustworthy (thiqah), though he sometimes erred (rubbamā wahima)d. 145 AH
    حُسَيْنٌ الْمُعَلِّمُثقة ، ربما وهم
    حدثنا
  5. ʿAbd al-Wārith
    trustworthy and firm (thiqah thabt); he was accused of belief in qadar (al-qadar), but this was not established about himd. 179 AH or 180 AH; also said: 178 AH
    أَبِيثقة ثبت , رمي بالقدر ولم يثبت عنه
    سمعت
  6. ʿAbd al-Ṣamad
    truthful (ṣadūq), reliable (thabt) in the narrations of Shuʿbahd. Ibn Ḥibbān said 206 AH or 207 AH
    عَبْدُ الصَّمَدِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْوَارِثِصدوق , ثبت في شعبة
    حدثني
  7. ʿAbd al-Raḥmān b. Muḥammad b. Sallām
    no harm in him (lā baʾs bih)d. 231 AH
    عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مُحَمَّدِ بْنِ سَلَّامٍلا بأس به
    أخبرني
  8. al-Nasāʾī
    the preserver (al-Ḥāfiẓ)d. 302 AH, or 303 AH
    النَّسَائِيُّالحافظ

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