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al-Sunan al-Kubra (al-Nasa'i) 5343

✧ The man presents his daughter to whoever is pleased

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أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ بْنِ رَاهَوَيْهِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا مَعْمَرٌ عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ عَنْ سَالِمٍ عَنِ ابْنِ عُمَرَ عَنْ عُمَرَ قَالَ

تَأَيَّمَتْ حَفْصَةُ بِنْتُ عُمَرَ مِنْ خُنَيْسٍ وَكَانَ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ مِمَّنْ شَهِدَ بَدْرًا فَتُوُفِّيَ بِالْمَدِينَةِ فَلَقِيتُ عُثْمَانَ فَعَرَضْتُ عَلَيْهِ حَفْصَةَ فَقُلْتُ إِنْ شِئْتَ أَنْكَحْتُكَ حَفْصَةَ فَقَالَ سَأَنْظُرُ فِي ذَلِكَ فَلَبِثْتُ لَيَالِيَ فَلَقِيتُهُ فَقَالَ مَا أُرِيدُ أَنْ أَتَزَوَّجَ يَوْمِي هَذَا قَالَ عُمَرُ فَلَقِيتُ أَبَا بَكْرٍ فَقُلْتُ إِنْ شِئْتَ أَنْكَحْتُكَ حَفْصَةَ فَلَمْ يَرْجِعْ إِلَيَّ شَيْئًا فَكُنْتُ عَلَيْهِ أَوْجَدَ مِنِّي عَلَى عُثْمَانَ فَلَبِثْتُ لَيَالِيَ فَخَطَبَهَا إِلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ فَأَنْكَحْتُهَا إِيَّاهُ فَلَقِيَنِي أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَقَالَ لَعَلَّكَ وَجَدْتَ عَلَيَّ حِينَ عَرَضْتَ عَلَيَّ حَفْصَةَ فَلَمْ أَرْجِعْ إِلَيْكَ شَيْئًا قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَإِنَّهُ لَمْ يَمْنَعْنِي حِينَ عَرَضْتَ عَلَيَّ أَنْ أَرْجِعَ إِلَيْكَ شَيْئًا إِلَّا أَنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَذْكُرُهَا وَلَمْ أَكُنْ لِأُفْشِيَ سِرَّ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَلَوْ تَرَكَهَا نَكَحْتُهَا

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Chain of narrators
  1. Isḥāq b. Ibrāhīm b. Rāhawayh
  2. ʿAbd al-Razzāq
  3. Maʿmar
  4. al-Zuhrī
  5. Sālim
  6. Ibn ʿUmar
  7. ʿUmar

✧ Hafsah bt. ‘Umar became a widow from Khunays, one of the companions of the Prophet ﷺ and one of those who witnessed Badr, who died in Madinah. I met ‘Uthman and offered Hafsah to him, saying: “If you wish, I will marry you to Hafsah.” He said: “I will consider this matter.” I waited some nights, then I met him and he said: “I do not want to marry at this time of mine.” ‘Umar said: “Then I met Abu Bakr and said: ‘If you wish, I will marry you to Hafsah.’ He did not return anything to me, and I was more upset with him than I had been with ‘Uthman. I waited some nights, then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ proposed her to me, and I married her to him. Then Abu Bakr met me and said: ‘Perhaps you were upset with me when you offered Hafsah to me and I did not return anything to you.’ I said: ‘Yes.’ He said: ‘Nothing prevented me from returning anything to you when you offered her except that I had heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ mention her, and I would not disclose the secret of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. If he had left her, I would have married her.’”

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