Mishkat al-Masabih 3133
The Guardian in Marriage, and asking the Woman’s consent - Section 2
وَعَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «الْيَتِيمَةُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ فِي نَفْسِهَا فَإِنْ صَمَتَتْ فَهُوَ إِذْنُهَا وَإِنْ أَبَتْ فَلَا جَوَازَ عَلَيْهَا». رَوَاهُ التِّرْمِذِيُّ وَأَبُو دَاوُدَ وَالنَّسَائِيّ وَرَوَاهُ الدَّارمِيّ عَن أبي مُوسَى
Translation
Abu Huraira reported God’s Messenger as saying, “An orphan girl should be consulted about herself; if she says nothing that indicates her permission, but if she refuses, the authority of the guardian cannot be exercised against her will.” Tirmidhi, Abu Dawud and Nasa’i transmitted it, and Darimi transmitted it on the authority of Abu Musa.
Grades by grader
| Abu Ghuddah | Hasangraded on nasai:3270 | fawazahmed0 |
|---|---|---|
| Ahmad Muhammad Shakir | Hasan Sahihgraded on tirmidhi:1109 | fawazahmed0 |
| Muhammad Muhyi al-Din Abd al-Hamid | Hasan Sahihgraded on abudawud:2093 | fawazahmed0 |
| Shuayb al-Arnaut | Sahih Lighairihigraded on abudawud:2093 | fawazahmed0 |
| Zubair Ali Zai | Goodgraded on tirmidhi:1109Another source records this grader as “Isnaad Sahih” (fawazahmed0). | fawazahmed0, hadithunlocked, sunnah.com |
| al-Albani | Hasan Sahihgraded on tirmidhi:1109On the narration in nasai:3270: “Hasan”. | fawazahmed0, hadithunlocked, sunnah.com |
Same hadith, other wordings
- Jami at-Tirmidzi 1109«الْيَتِيمَةُ تُسْتَأْمَرُ فِي نَفْسِهَا، فَإِنْ صَمَتَتْ فَهُوَ إِذْنُهَا، وَإِنْ أَبَتْ فَلاَ جَوَازَ عَلَيْهَا».