al-Matalib al-'Aliyah 4912
✧ Umm Salamah, ᴿᴬ
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وَقَالَ أَبُو يَعْلَى: حَدَّثَنَا هُدْبَةُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ، قَالَا: ثَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ الْمُغِيرَةِ، عَنْ ثَابِتٍ، أَخْبَرَنِي عُمَرُ بْنُ أَبِي سَلَمَةَ، قَالَ:
جَاءَ أَبُو سَلَمَةَ ؓ.. فَذَكَرَ الْحَدِيثَ فِي وَفَاتِهِ، وَأَنَّ أَبَا بَكْرٍ ؓ خَطَبَهَا فَرَدَّتْهُ، ثُمَّ عُمَرُ ؓ فَرَدَّتْهُ، ثُمَّ أَرْسَلَ إِلَيْهَا رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ يَخْطُبُهَا، فَقَالَتْ ؓ: إِنَّ فِيَّ خِلَالًا ثَلَاثًا، فَسَمِعَ عُمَرُ ؓ مَا رَدَّتْ بِهِ عَلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَغَضِبَ لِرَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ أَكْثَرَ مِمَّا غَضِبَ لِنَفْسِهِ، فَأَتَاهَا فَقَالَ لَهَا: أَنْتِ الَّتِي تَرُدِّينَ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ بِمَ تَرُدِّينَهُ ؟ قَالَتْ: يَا ابْنَ الْخَطَّابِ، إِنَّ فِيَّ كَذَا وَكَذَا. وَفِي الْحَدِيثِ: فَأَمَّا مَا ذَكَرْتِ مِنَ الْغَيْرَةِ، فَإِنِّي أَدْعُو اللهَ تَعَالَى أَنْ يُذْهِبَهَا. قَالَ: فَكَانَتْ فِي النِّسَاءِ كَأَنَّهَا لَيْسَتْ مِنْهُنَّ، لَا تَجِدُ مَا يَجِدْنَ النِّسَاءُ مِنَ الْغَيْرَةِ
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Chain of narrators
- Abū Yaʿlá
- Hudbah b. Khālid
- Sulaymān b. al-Mughīrah
- Thābit
- ʿUmar b. Abū Salamah
✧ Abu Salamah ؓ came... then he mentioned the hadith about his death, and that Abu Bakr ؓ proposed to her but she refused him, then Umar ؓ proposed but she refused him, then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ sent to propose to her. She said ؓ, "I have three traits." Umar ؓ heard what she said in response to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and he became angrier for the Messenger of Allah ﷺ than he did for himself. He went to her and said, "Are you the one who refuses the Messenger of Allah ﷺ? With what do you refuse him?" She said, "O Ibn al-Khattab, I have such and such." And in the hadith: "As for what you mentioned about jealousy, I will supplicate Allah Almighty to remove it." He said: So she became among the women as if she were not one of them; she did not feel the jealousy that women feel.
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