Dalil
العربية

Sunan ad-Darimi 1093

✧ The onset of menstruation

Show the chain

أَخْبَرَنَا سُلَيْمَانُ بْنُ حَرْبٍ حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادُ بْنُ سَلَمَةَ عَنْ ثَابِتٍ عَنْ أَنَسٍ

أَنَّ الْيَهُودُ كَانُوا إِذَا حَاضَتِ الْمَرْأَةُ فِيهِمْ لَمْ يُؤَاكِلُوهَا وَلَمْ يُشَارِبُوهَا وَأَخْرَجُوهَا مِنَ الْبَيْتِ وَلَمْ تَكُنْ مَعَهُمْ فِي الْبُيُوتِ فَسُئِلَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَأَنْزَلَ اللَّهُ تَعَالَى {وَيَسْأَلُونَكَ عَنِ الْمَحِيضِ قُلْ هُوَ أَذًى} [البقرة 222] «فَأَمَرَهُمْ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَنَّ يُؤَاكِلُوهُنَّ وَأَنْ يُشَارِبُوهُنَّ وَأَنْ يَكُنَّ مَعَهُمْ فِي الْبُيُوتِ وَأَنْ يَفْعَلُوا كُلَّ شَيْءٍ مَا خَلَا النِّكَاحَ» فَقَالَتِ الْيَهُودَ مَا يُرِيدُ هَذَا أَنْ يَدَعَ شَيْئًا مِنْ أَمْرِنَا إِلَّا خَالَفَنَا فِيهِ فَجَاءَ عَبَّادُ بْنُ بِشْرٍ وَأُسَيْدُ بْنُ حُضَيْرٍ إِلَى رَسُولِ اللَّهُ ﷺ فَأَخْبَرَاهُ بِذَلِكَ وَقَالَا يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَفَلَا نَنْكِحُهُنَّ فِي الْمَحِيضِ؟ فَتَمَعَّرَ وَجْهُ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ تَمَعُّرًا شَدِيدًا حَتَّى ظَنَنَّا أَنَّهُ قد وَجَدَ عَلَيْهِمَا فَقَامَا فَخَرَجَا فَاسْتَقْبَلَتْهُمَا هَدِيَّةُ لَبَنٍ فَبَعَثَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ فِي آثَارِهِمَا فَرَدَّهُمَا فَسَقَاهُمَا فَعَلِمْنَا أَنَّهُ لَمْ يَغْضَبْ عَلَيْهِمَا

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Sulaymān b. Ḥarb
  2. Ḥammād b. Salamah
  3. Thābit
  4. Anas

✧ The Jews, when a woman among them menstruated, would not eat with her or drink with her, and they would turn her out of the house, and she would not be with them in the houses. The Prophet ﷺ was asked about that, and Allah, the Exalted, sent down: {They ask you about menstruation. Say: It is harm} [al-Baqarah 222]. So the Messenger of Allah ﷺ commanded them to eat with them, and to drink with them, and to have them with them in the houses, and to do everything except intercourse. The Jews said, “This man does not want to leave anything of our affair except that he opposes us in it.” Then ʿAbbād b. Bishr and Usayd b. Ḥuḍayr came to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and informed him of that, and said, “O Messenger of Allah, should we not have intercourse with them during menstruation?” The face of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ changed greatly, so much so that we thought he was angry with them. They stood up and left, and a gift of milk met them. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ sent after them and brought them back and gave them to drink, so we knew that he was not angry with them.

Grades by grader

DārānīSound Chainhadithunlocked