Musnad Ahmad 27511
✧ From the saying of Abu Darda, A'wwamir
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حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ عَطَاءِ بْنِ السَّائِبِ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ السُّلَمِيِّ قَالَ
كَانَ فِينَا رَجُلٌ لَمْ تَزَلْ بِهِ أُمُّهُ أَنْ يَتَزَوَّجَ حَتَّى تَزَوَّجَ، ثُمَّ أَمَرَتْهُ أَنْ يُفَارِقَهَا فَرَحَلَ إِلَى أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ بِالشَّامِ، فَقَالَ: إِنَّ أُمِّي لَمْ تَزَلْ بِي حَتَّى تَزَوَّجْتُ، ثُمَّ أَمَرَتْنِي أَنْ أُفَارِقَ قَالَ: مَا أَنَا بِالَّذِي آمُرُكَ أَنْ تُفَارِقَ، وَمَا أَنَا بِالَّذِي آمُرُكَ أَنْ تُمْسِكَ، سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللهِ ﷺ يَقُولُ: الْوَالِدُ أَوْسَطُ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ فَأَضِعْ ذَلِكَ الْبَابَ أَوِ احْفَظْهُ. قَالَ: فَرَجَعَ. وَقَدْ فَارَقَهَا
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- ʿAbd al-Razzāq
- Sufyān
- ʿAṭāʾ b. al-Sāʾib
- Abū ʿAbd al-Raḥman al-Sulamī
✧ There was among us a man whose mother kept urging him to marry until he married. Then she commanded him to separate from her, so he traveled to Abu al-Darda' in Syria and said: 'My mother kept urging me until I married, then she commanded me to separate.' He said: 'I am not the one to command you to separate, nor am I the one to command you to hold on. I heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ say: "The parent is the middle gate of Paradise, so lose that gate or preserve it."' He said: 'So he returned, and he had separated from her.'
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