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Musnad Ahmad 27320

✧ From the conversation of Fatima bt. Qais, the sister of Dahhak bin Qais

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حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ مَهْدِيٍّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ تَقُولُ أَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ زَوْجِي أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ حَفْصِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ عَيَّاشَ بْنَ أَبِي رَبِيعَةَ بِطَلَاقِي وَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ خَمْسَةَ آصُعِ تَمْرٍ وَخَمْسَ آَصَعٍ شَعِيرٍ فَقُلْتُ مَا لِي نَفَقَةٌ إِلَّاهَذَا؟ وَلَا أَعْتَدُّ إِلَّا فِي بَيْتِكُمْ ؟ قَالَ

أَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ زَوْجِي أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ حَفْصِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ عَيَّاشَ بْنَ أَبِي رَبِيعَةَ بِطَلَاقِي، وَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ بِخَمْسِ آصُعِ تَمْرٍ وَخَمْسِ آصُعِ شَعِيرٍ. فَقُلْتُ: مَا لِي نَفَقَةٌ إِلَّا هَذَا، وَلَا أَعْتَدُّ فِي بَيْتِكُمْ. قَالَ: لَا، فَشَدَدْتُ عَلَيَّ ثِيَابِي، ثُمَّ أَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ، فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لَهُ، فَقَالَ: كَمْ طَلَّقَكِ ؟ قُلْتُ: ثَلَاثًا. قَالَ: صَدَقَ، لَيْسَ لَكِ نَفَقَةٌ. وَاعْتَدِّي فِي بَيْتِ ابْنِ عَمِّكِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ؛ فَإِنَّهُ ضَرِيرُ الْبَصَرِ تُلْقِينَ ثِيَابَكِ عَنْكِ. فَإِذَا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُكِ فَآذِنِينِي. قَالَتْ: فَخَطَبَنِي خُطَّابٌ فِيهِمْ مُعَاوِيَةُ، وَأَبُو الْجَهْمِ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ: إِنَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ تَرِبٌ خَفِيفُ الْحَالِ، وَأَبُو الْجَهْمِ يَضْرِبُ النِّسَاءَ، [وَلَكِنْ - أَيْ فِيهِ شِدَّةٌ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ - عَلَيْكِ] بِأُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ - أَوْ قَالَ: انْكِحِي أُسَامَةَ بْنَ زَيْدٍ -.

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. ʿAbd al-Raḥman b. Mahdī
  2. Sufyān
  3. Abū Bakr b. Abū al-Jahm
  4. Fāṭimah Bint Qays
  5. Arsal Ilay Zawjī Abū ʿAmr b. Ḥafṣ b. al-Mughīrah ʿAyyāsh b. Abū Rabīʿah Biṭalāqī And ʾArsal Ilay Khamsah Āṣuʿ Tamr Wakhams Āṣaʿ Shaʿīr
  6. Mā Lī Nafaqah Illāhadhā Walā Aʿtad Illā Fī Baytikum

✧ My husband Abū ʿAmr b. Ḥafṣ b. al-Mughīrah sent ʿAyyāsh b. Abī Rabīʿah to me with my divorce, and he sent me five ṣāʿs of dates and five ṣāʿs of barley. I said: “I have no maintenance except this, and I will not observe my waiting period in your house.” He said: “No.” So I tied my clothes firmly, then I came to the Prophet ﷺ and mentioned that to him. He said: “How many times did he divorce you?” I said: “Three.” He said: “He spoke the truth. You have no maintenance. Observe your waiting period in the house of your cousin Ibn Umm Maktūm, for he is blind; you can lay aside your clothes there. When your waiting period ends, inform me.” She said: Then suitors proposed to me, among them Muʿāwiyah and Abū al-Jahm. The Messenger of God ﷺ said: “Muʿāwiyah is poor and of little means, and Abū al-Jahm beats women—[rather, he is harsh with women—so upon you] is Usāmah b. Zayd”—or he said: “Marry Usāmah b. Zayd.”

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