Musnad Ahmad 20455

Translation

✧ He witnessed the Prophet ﷺ when a bearer of good tidings came to him announcing the victory of an army of his over their enemy, while his head was in 'A'ishah's lap. He stood up and fell down prostrating, then began questioning the bearer of good tidings. He informed him—what he informed him—that a woman had taken charge of their affair. The Prophet ﷺ said: "Now the men are ruined when they obey the women—the men are ruined when they obey the women"—three times.

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Narrators

1. 1
   Abū Bakrah al-Thaqafī

   Companion (ṣaḥābī)d. 50 AH, or: 51 AH, or: 52 AH, or: 59 AH, also said: 53 AH
   أَبُو بَكْرَةَ الثَّقَفِيُّصحابي
   يحدث عن
2. 2
   ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz b. Abī Bakrah

   truthful (ṣadūq)d. between 101 and 110 AH
   أَبِيصدوق
   سمعت
3. 3
   Bakkār b. ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz b. Abī Bakrah

   truthful (ṣadūq), prone to error (yahim)
   أَبُو بَكْرَةَ بَكَّارُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرَةَصدوق يهم
   حدثنا
4. 4
   Aḥmad b. ʿAbd al-Malik

   trustworthy (thiqah), criticized without proofd. 221 AH, or 222 AH
   أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ الْحَرَّانِيُّثقة ، تكلم فيه بلا حجة
   حدثنا
5. 5
   Aḥmad b. Ḥanbal

   Trustworthy (thiqah), a memorizer (ḥāfiẓ), a jurist (faqīh), an authority (ḥujjah).d. 241 AH, Abū Umayyah Muḥammad b. Ibrāhīm al-Ṭarsūsī said: 242 AH, and no one followed him in his view
   أحمد بن حنبلثقة حافظ فقيه حجة

Who each narrator was and how reliable, from hdith.com

Latin names and English verdicts with a dotted underline are machine translations, not reviewed.