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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 18

Obedience to parents unless its for a sinful act

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حَدَّثَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْعَزِيزِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْمَلِكِ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ بْنِ عُبَيْدِ اللهِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرَةَ الْبَصْرِيُّ لَقِيتُهُ بِالرَّمْلَةِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي رَاشِدٌ أَبُو مُحَمَّدٍ عَنْ شَهْرِ بْنِ حَوْشَبٍ عَنْ أُمِّ الدَّرْدَاءِ عَنْ أَبِي الدَّرْدَاءِ قَالَ

أَوْصَانِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ بِتِسْعٍ: «(١) لاَ تُشْرِكْ بِاللَّهِ شَيْئًا وَإِنْ قُطِّعْتَ أَوْ حُرِّقْتَ، (٢) وَلاَ تَتْرُكَنَّ الصَّلاَةَ الْمَكْتُوبَةَ مُتَعَمِّدًا، وَمَنْ تَرَكَهَا مُتَعَمِّدًا بَرِئَتْ مِنْهُ الذِّمَّةُ، (٣) وَلاَ تَشْرَبَنَّ الْخَمْرَ فَإِنَّهَا مِفْتَاحُ كُلِّ شَرٍّ، (٤) وَأَطِعْ وَالِدَيْكَ، وَإِنْ أَمَرَاكَ أَنْ تَخْرُجَ مِنْ دُنْيَاكَ فَاخْرُجْ لَهُمَا، (٥) وَلاَ تُنَازِعَنَّ وُلاَةَ الأَمْرِ وَإِنْ رَأَيْتَ أَنَّكَ أَنْتَ، (٦) وَلاَ تَفْرُرْ مِنَ الزَّحْفِ وَإِنْ هَلَكْتَ وَفَرَّ أَصْحَابُكَ، (٧) وَأَنْفِقْ مِنْ طَوْلِكَ عَلَى أَهْلِكَ، (٨) وَلاَ تَرْفَعْ عَصَاكَ عَنْ أَهْلِكَ, (٩) وَأَخِفْهُمْ فِي اللهِ ﷻ».

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Muḥammad b. ʿAbd al-ʿAzīz
  2. ʿAbd al-Malik b. al-Khaṭṭāb b. ʿUbaydullāh b. Abī Bakrah al-Baṣrī
  3. Rāshid Abū Muḥammad
  4. Shahr b. Ḥawshab
  5. Umm al-Dardāʾ
  6. Abū al-Dardāʾ

The Messenger of Allah ﷺ instructed me in nine things: “(1) Do not associate anything with Allah, even if you are cut to pieces or burned. (2) Never deliberately abandon the prescribed prayer, for whoever deliberately abandons it is no longer under the covenant of protection. (3) Never drink wine, for it is the key to every evil. (4) Obey your parents; if they command you to relinquish your worldly possessions, relinquish them for their sake. (5) Do not contend with those in authority, even if you believe that you are in the right. (6) Do not flee from the advancing army, even if you perish and your companions flee. (7) Spend on your family according to your means. (8) Do not withhold your rod from your family, and (9) make them fear Allah ﷻ.”

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