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Jami' at-Tirmidhi 1055

What Has Been Related About Women Visiting Graves

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حَدَّثَنَا الْحُسَيْنُ بْنُ حُرَيْثٍ حَدَّثَنَا عِيسَى بْنُ يُونُسَ عَنِ ابْنِ جُرَيْجٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ قَالَ

تُوُفِّيَ عَبْدُ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنُ أَبِي بَكْرٍ بِحُبْشِيٍّ قَالَ فَحُمِلَ إِلَى مَكَّةَ فَدُفِنَ فِيهَا فَلَمَّا قَدِمَتْ عَائِشَةُ أَتَتْ قَبْرَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي بَكْرٍ فَقَالَتْ وَكُنَّا كَنَدْمَانَىْ جَذِيمَةَ حِقْبَةً مِنَ الدَّهْرِ حَتَّى قِيلَ لَنْ يَتَصَدَّعَا فَلَمَّا تَفَرَّقْنَا كَأَنِّي وَمَالِكًا لِطُولِ اجْتِمَاعٍ لَمْ نَبِتْ لَيْلَةً مَعَا ثُمَّ قَالَتْ وَاللَّهِ لَوْ حَضَرْتُكَ مَا دُفِنْتَ إِلاَّ حَيْثُ مُتَّ وَلَوْ شَهِدْتُكَ مَا زُرْتُكَ

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. al-Ḥusayn b. Ḥurayth
  2. ʿĪsá b. Yūnus
  3. Ibn Jurayj
  4. ʿAbdullāh b. Abū Mulaykah

"Abdur-Rahman bin Abi Bakr died in Al-Hubshi" He said: "He was carried to Makkah to be buried there. So when Aishah arrived she went to the grave of Abdur-Rahman bin Abi Bakr and she said: "We were like two drinking companions of Jadhimah for such a long time that they would say: 'They will never part.' So when we were separated it was as if I and Malik - due to the length of unity - never spent a night together."

Grades by grader

Zubair Ali ZaiWeakAnother source records this grader as “Sahih” (fawazahmed0).hadithunlocked, sunnah.com
Ahmad Muhammad ShakirDaiffawazahmed0
al-AlbaniDaiffawazahmed0

Same hadith, other wordings

  • Misykatul Mashabih 1718وَعَنِ ابْنِ أَبِي مُلَيْكَةَ قَالَ: لَمَّا تُوُفِّيَ عبد الرَّحْمَن بن أبي بكر بالحبشي (مَوضِع قريب من مَكَّة) وَهُوَ مَوْضِعٌ فَحُمِلَ إِلَى مَكَّةَ فَدُفِنَ بِهَا فَلَمَّا قَدِمَتْ عَائِشَةُ أَتَتْ قَبْرَ عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ بْنِ أَبِي بَ

Narrators

  1. الحسين بن حريث الخزاعي
  2. عيسى بن يونس السبيعي
  3. ابن جريج المكي
  4. عبد الله بن أبي مليكة القرشي
  5. عائشة بنت أبي بكر الصديق

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