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Sahih Muslim 1477b

Giving one's wife the choice does not count as a divorce, unless it is intended as such

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وَحَدَّثَنَاهُ أَبُو بَكْرِ بْنُ أَبِي شَيْبَةَ حَدَّثَنَا عَلِيُّ بْنُ مُسْهِرٍ عَنْ إِسْمَاعِيلَ بْنِ أَبِي خَالِدٍ عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ عَنْ مَسْرُوقٍ قَالَ

مَا أُبَالِي خَيَّرْتُ امْرَأَتِي وَاحِدَةً أَوْ مِائَةً أَوْ أَلْفًا بَعْدَ أَنْ تَخْتَارَنِي وَلَقَدْ سَأَلْتُ عَائِشَةَ فَقَالَتْ قَدْ خَيَّرَنَا رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ أَفَكَانَ طَلاَقًا

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Abū Bakr b. Abū Shaybah
  2. ʿAlī b. Mushir
  3. Ismāʿīl b. Abū Khālid
  4. al-Shaʿbī
  5. Masrūq

I do not mind if I give option to my wife (to get divorce) once, hundred times, or thousand times after (knowing it) that she has chosen me (and would never seek divorce). I asked 'A'isha (Allah be pleased with her) (about it) and she said: Messenger of Allah ﷺ gave us the option, but did it imply divorce? (It was in fact not a divorce; it is effective when women actually avail themselves of it.)

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  1. ابن أبي شيبة العبسي
  2. علي بن مسهر القرشي
  3. إسماعيل بن أبي خالد البجلي
  4. عامر الشعبي
  5. مسروق بن الأجدع الهمداني
  6. عائشة بنت أبي بكر الصديق