Dalil

Mishkat al-Masabih 3342

Maintenance, and a Slave’s Rights - Section 1

عَنْ عَائِشَةَ رَضِيَ اللَّهُ عَنْهَا قَالَتْ: إِنَّ هندا بنت عتبَة قَالَت: يَا رَسُول الله إِن أَبَا سُفْيَان رجل شحيح وَلَيْسَ يعطيني مَا يَكْفِينِي وَوَلَدي إِلَّا مَا أخذت مِنْهُ وَهُوَ يعلم فَقَالَ: «خذي مَا يَكْفِيك وولدك بِالْمَعْرُوفِ»

Translation

‘A’isha told that Hind daughter of ‘Utba said, “Messenger of God, Abu Sufyan is a niggardly man who does not give me and my son enough; except what I take from him without his knowledge.” He replied, “Take what is enough for you and your son to the extent recognised by the law.”* * Bil ma’roof.This is what is generally recognised as reasonable. The amount would vary according to the circumstances of the people. (Bukhari and Muslim.)

Grades by grader

Muhammad Fuad Abd al-BaqiAgreed Upongraded on bukhari:5364fawazahmed0, hadithunlocked
Shuayb al-ArnautSahihgraded on ibnmajah:2293fawazahmed0
Zubair Ali ZaiSoundgraded on ibnmajah:2293fawazahmed0, hadithunlocked, sunnah.com
al-AlbaniSahihgraded on ibnmajah:2293fawazahmed0

Same hadith, other wordings

  • Shahih al-Bukhari 5364أَنَّ هِنْدَ بِنْتَ عُتْبَةَ قَالَتْ: يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ إِنَّ أَبَا سُفْيَانَ رَجُلٌ شَحِيحٌ وَلَيْسَ يُعْطِينِي مَا يَكْفِينِي وَوَلَدِي إِلاَّ مَا أَخَذْتُ مِنْهُ وَهْوَ لاَ يَعْلَمُ، فَقَالَ: «خُذِي مَا يَكْفِيكِ وَوَلَدَكِ بِالْمَعْرُ