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Sahih Ibn Hibban 4254

✧ Translation: "The Expense of

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أَخْبَرَنَا أَحْمَدُ بْنُ عَلِيِّ بْنِ الْمُثَنَّى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو خَيْثَمَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ مَهْدِيٍّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ عَنْ أَبِي بَكْرِ بْنِ أَبِي الْجَهْمِ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ فَاطِمَةَ بِنْتَ قَيْسٍ تَقُولُ أَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ زَوْجِي أَبُو عَمْرِو بْنُ حَفْصِ بْنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ عَيَّاشَ بْنَ أَبِي رَبِيعَةَ بِطَلَاقِي وَأَرْسَلَ إِلَيَّ بِخَمْسَةِ آصُعٍ مِنْ شَعِيرٍ وَخَمْسَةِ آصُعٍ مِنْ تَمْرٍ فَقُلْتُ مَالِي نَفَقَةٌ إِلَّا هَذَا وَلَا أَعْتَدُّ فِي مَنْزِلِكُمْ؟ قَالَ لَا قَالَتْ

فَشَدَدْتُ عَلَيَّ ثِيَابِي ثُمَّ أَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ ﷺ فَذَكَرْتُ ذَلِكَ لَهُ فَقَالَ «كَمْ طَلَّقَكِ؟ » قُلْتُ ثَلَاثَةً قَالَ «صَدَقَ لَيْسَ لَكِ نَفَقَةٌ وَاعْتَدِّي فِي بَيْتِ ابْنِ عَمِّكِ ابْنِ أُمِّ مَكْتُومٍ فَإِنَّهُ ضَرِيرُ الْبَصَرِ تَلْقِينَ ثَوْبَكِ عِنْدَهُ فَإِذَا انْقَضَتْ عِدَّتُكِ فَآذِنِينِي» قَالَتْ فَخَطَبَنِي خُطَّابٌ مِنْهُمْ مُعَاوِيَةُ وَأَبُو جَهْمٍ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ «إِنَّ مُعَاوِيَةَ خَفِيفُ الْحَاذِ وَأَبُو جَهْمٍ فِيهِ شِدَّةٌ عَلَى النِّسَاءِ أَوْ يَضْرِبُ النِّسَاءَ أَوْ نَحْوَ هَذَا وَلَكِنْ عَلَيْكِ بِأُسَامَةَ بْنِ زَيْدٍ»

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Chain of narrators
  1. Aḥmad b. ʿAlī b. al-Muthanná
  2. Abū Khaythamah
  3. Ibn Mahdī
  4. Sufyān
  5. Abū Bakr b. Abū al-Jahm
  6. Fāṭimah Bint Qays
  7. Arsal Ilay Zawjī Abū ʿAmr b. Ḥafṣ b. al-Mughīrah ʿAyyāsh b. Abū Rabīʿah Biṭalāqī And ʾArsal Ilay Bikhamsah Āṣuʿ Min Shaʿīr Wakhamsah Āṣuʿ Min Tamr
  8. Mālī Nafaqah Illā Hadhā Walā Aʿtad Fī Manzilikum
  9. Lā

✧ I fastened my clothes and went to the Prophet ﷺ and mentioned that to him. He said: "How many times did he divorce you?" I said: Three. He said: "He spoke the truth. You have no maintenance. Observe your waiting period in the house of your cousin Ibn Umm Maktum, for he is blind; you can put down your garment in his presence. When your waiting period ends, inform me." She said: Suitors proposed to me, among them Mu'awiyah and Abu Jahm. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: "Mu'awiyah is light of means, and Abu Jahm has severity with women—or he beats women or something like this—but you should choose Usamah b. Zayd."

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