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Sahih Ibn Hibban 4039

✧ The Reproach of Neglecting Struggle when this Nation Struggles in the Cause of God

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أَخْبَرَنَا مُحَمَّدُ بْنُ الْحَسَنِ بْنِ قُتَيْبَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا ابْنُ أَبِي السَّرِيِّ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الرَّزَّاقِ قَالَ أَخْبَرَنَا مَعْمَرٌ عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ عَنْ سَالِمٍ عَنْ أَبِيهِ قَالَ قَالَ عُمَرُ بْنُ الْخَطَّابِ

تَأَيَّمَتْ حَفْصَةُ بِنْتُ عُمَرَ مِنْ خُنَيْسِ بْنِ حُذَافَةَ السَّهْمِيِّ رَجُلٌ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ ﷺ مِمَّنْ شَهِدَ بَدْرًا وَتُوُفِّيَ بِالْمَدِينَةِ قَالَ عُمَرُ فَلَقِيتُ عُثْمَانَ بْنَ عَفَّانَ فَعَرَضْتُ عَلَيْهِ حَفْصَةَ فَقُلْتُ إِنْ شِئْتَ أَنْكَحْتُكَ حَفْصَةَ بِنْتَ عُمَرَ فَقَالَ سَأَنْظُرُ فِي ذَلِكَ قَالَ فَلَبِثْتُ لَيَالِيَ فَلَقِيَنِي فَقَالَ مَا أُرِيدُ النِّكَاحَ يَوْمِي هَذَا قَالَ عُمَرُ فَلَقِيتُ أَبَا بَكْرٍ فَقُلْتُ إِنْ شِئْتَ أَنْكَحْتُكَ حَفْصَةَ بِنْتَ عُمَرَ قَالَ فَلَمْ يَرْجِعْ إِلَيَّ شَيْئًا فَكُنْتُ أَوْجَدَ عَلَيْهِ مِنِّي عَلَى عُثْمَانَ فَلَبِثْتُ لَيَالِيَ فَخَطَبَهَا إِلَيَّ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَأَنْكَحْتُهَا إِيَّاهُ فَلَقِيَنِي أَبُو بَكْرٍ فَقَالَ لَعَلَّكَ وَجَدْتَ فِي نَفْسِكَ حِينَ عَرَضْتَ عَلَيَّ حَفْصَةَ فَلَمْ أَرْجِعْ إِلَيْكَ شَيْئًا قَالَ قُلْتُ نَعَمْ قَالَ فَإِنَّهُ «لَمْ يَمْنَعْنِي أَنْ أَرْجِعَ إِلَيْكَ شَيْئًا لَمَّا عَرَضْتَ عَلَيَّ إِلَّا أَنِّي سَمِعْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ﷺ يَذْكُرُهَا وَلَمْ أَكُنْ أُفْشِي سِرَّ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ وَلَوْ تَرَكَهَا لَنَكَحْتُهَا»

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Muḥammad b. al-Ḥasan b. Qutaybah
  2. Ibn Abū al-Sarī
  3. ʿAbd al-Razzāq
  4. Maʿmar
  5. al-Zuhrī
  6. Sālim
  7. his father
  8. ʿUmar b. al-Khaṭṭāb

✧ Hafsa bt. Umar was widowed from Khunays b. Hudhafa al-Sahmi, a man among the Companions of the Prophet ﷺ who had witnessed Badr and died in Madinah. Umar said: I met Uthman b. Affan and offered Hafsa to him, saying, "If you wish, I will marry you to Hafsa bt. Umar." He said, "I will consider that." He said: I waited some nights, and he met me and said, "I do not want to marry this day of mine." Umar said: I met Abu Bakr and said, "If you wish, I will marry you to Hafsa bt. Umar." He said: He did not give me any reply, and I was more upset with him than with Uthman. I waited some nights, and then the Messenger of Allah ﷺ proposed to her to me, and I married her to him. Abu Bakr met me and said, "Perhaps you felt something in yourself when you offered Hafsa to me and I did not give you any reply." He said: I said, "Yes." He said: "Nothing prevented me from giving you any reply when you offered her to me except that I had heard the Messenger of Allah ﷺ mention her, and I would not divulge the secret of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. Had he left her, I would have married her."

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