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Musnad Ahmad 14306

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حَدَّثَنَا سُفْيَانُ قَالَ عَمْرٌو سَمِعْتُ جَابِرًا يَقُولُ

قَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ: هَلْ نَكَحْتَ ؟ قُلْتُ: نَعَمْ. قَالَ: أَبِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ قُلْتُ: ثَيِّبًا. قَالَ: فَهَلَّا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ ! قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، قُتِلَ أَبِي يَوْمَ أُحُدٍ وَتَرَكَ سَبْعَ بَنَاتٍ، وَكَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَجْمَعَ إِلَيْهِمْ خَرْقَاءَ مِثْلَهُنَّ، وَلَكِنِ امْرَأَةٌ تَمْشُطُهُنَّ، وَتَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ، قَالَ: أَصَبْتَ.

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Chain of narrators
  1. Sufyān
  2. ʿAmr
  3. Jābir

✧ The Messenger of God ﷺ said to me, 'Have you married?' I said, 'Yes.' He said, 'A virgin or a previously married woman?' I said, 'A previously married woman.' He said, 'Why not a virgin, so that you could frolic with her and she could frolic with you?' I said, 'O Messenger of God, my father was killed on the day of Uhud and left seven daughters, and I disliked bringing to them a young inexperienced woman like them. Rather, a woman who can comb their hair and look after them.' He said, 'You have done well.'

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