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Musnad Ahmad 14237

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حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَى بْنُ سَعِيدٍ عَنْ عَبْدِ الْمَلِكِ ح وَإِسْحَاقُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ الْأَزْرَقُ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ الْمَلِكِ عَنْ عَطَاءٍ عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ

تَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ: يَا جَابِرُ أَتَزَوَّجْتَ ؟ قَالَ: قُلْتُ: نَعَمْ. قَالَ: بِكْرًا أَوْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ قَالَ: قُلْتُ: ثَيِّبًا. قَالَ: أَلَا بِكْرًا تُلَاعِبُهَا ! قَالَ: قُلْتُ: يَا رَسُولَ اللهِ، كُنَّ لِي أَخَوَاتٌ، فَخَشِيتُ أَنْ تَدْخُلَ بَيْنِي وَبَيْنَهُنَّ، فَقَالَ: إِنَّ الْمَرْأَةَ تُنْكَحُ لِدِينِهَا، وَمَالِهَا، وَجَمَالِهَا، فَعَلَيْكَ بِذَاتِ الدِّينِ تَرِبَتْ يَدَاكَ.

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. [Chain 1] Yaḥyá b. Saʿīd
  2. ʿAbd al-Malik [Chain 2] ʿAbd al-Malik
  3. ʿAṭāʾ
  4. Jābir

✧ I married a woman during the time of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ, and he said, "O Jābir, have you married?" I said, "Yes." He said, "A virgin or a previously married woman?" I said, "A previously married woman." He said, "Why not a virgin, so you could play with her?" I said, "O Messenger of Allah, I have sisters, and I feared that she would come between me and them." He said, "A woman is married for her religion, her wealth, and her beauty; so choose the one with religion, may your hands be dusty."

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