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Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 1022

Not greeting a man wearing khaluq-perfume or a sinner

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حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ صَالِحٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي اللَّيْثُ عَنْ عَمْرٍو هُوَ ابْنُ الْحَارِثِ عَنْ بَكْرِ بْنِ سَوَادَةَ عَنْ أَبِي النَّجِيبِ

عَنْ أَبِي سَعِيدٍ قَالَ أَقْبَلَ رَجُلٌ مِنَ الْبَحْرَيْنِ إِلَى النَّبِيِّ ﷺ فَسَلَّمَ عَلَيْهِ فَلَمْ يَرُدَّ وَفِي يَدِهِ خَاتَمٌ مِنْ ذَهَبٍ وَعَلَيْهِ جُبَّةُ حَرِيرٍ فَانْطَلَقَ الرَّجُلُ مَحْزُونًا فَشَكَا إِلَى امْرَأَتِهِ فَقَالَتْ لَعَلَّ بِرَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ وَجِبَّتَكَ وَخَاتَمَكَ فَأَلْقِهِمَا ثُمَّ عُدْ فَفَعَلَ فَرَدَّ السَّلاَمَ فَقَالَ جِئْتُكَ آنِفًا فَأَعْرَضْتَ عَنِّي؟ قَالَ كَانَ فِي يَدِكَ جَمْرٌ مِنْ نَارٍ فَقَالَ لَقَدْ جِئْتُ إِذًا بِجَمْرٍ كَثِيرٍ قَالَ إِنَّ مَا جِئْتَ بِهِ لَيْسَ بِأَجْزَأَ عَنَّا مِنْ حِجَارَةِ الْحَرَّةِ وَلَكِنَّهُ مَتَاعُ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا قَالَ فَبِمَاذَا أَتَخَتَّمُ بِهِ؟ قَالَ بِحَلْقَةٍ مِنْ وَرِقٍ أَوْ صُفْرٍ أَوْ حَدِيدٍ

Translation

✧ From Abū Saʿīd, who said: A man from al-Baḥrayn came to the Prophet ﷺ and greeted him, but he did not return the greeting. The man had a gold ring on his hand and was wearing a silk robe. The man went away grieving and complained to his wife. She said, 'Perhaps it is because of the Messenger of Allah ﷺ and your robe and your ring. Throw them away and go back.' He did so, and the Prophet returned the greeting. The man said, 'I came to you a short while ago and you turned away from me?' He said, 'There was a live coal from the Fire in your hand.' The man said, 'Then I have surely brought many coals.' He said, 'What you brought is not even as useful to us as the stones of al-Ḥarra, but it is the stuff of the life of this world.' The man asked, 'With what should I wear a ring then?' He said, 'With a band of silver, brass, or iron.'

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