Dalil

Musnad Abi Ya'la 1990

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حَدَّثَنَا الْقَوَارِيرِيُّ، حَدَّثَنَا حَمَّادٌ، عَنْ عَمْرٍو، عَنْ جَابِرٍ قَالَ:

هَلَكَ أَبِي فَتَرَكَ سَبْعَ بَنَاتٍ أَوْ تِسْعَ بَنَاتٍ - قَالَ حَمَّادٌ: وَلَا أَعْلَمُهُ إِلَّا قَالَ: تِسْعَ.. - فَتَزَوَّجْتُ امْرَأَةً ثَيِّبًا، فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ: تَزَوَّجْتَ يَا جَابِرُ ؟ قُلْتُ: نَعَمْ، قَالَ: بِكْرًا أَمْ ثَيِّبًا ؟ قُلْتُ: ثَيِّبًا، قَالَ: فَهَلَّا جَارِيَةً تُلَاعِبُهَا وَتُلَاعِبُكَ، أَوْ قَالَ: تُضَاحِكُهَا وَتُضَاحِكُكَ ؟ قَالَ: قُلْتُ: إِنَّ عَبْدَ اللهِ هَلَكَ وَتَرَكَ تِسْعَ بَنَاتٍ، وَإِنِّي كَرِهْتُ أَنْ أَجِيئَهُنَّ بِمِثْلِهِنَّ، فَأَرَدْتُ امْرَأَةً تَقُومُ عَلَيْهِنَّ، فَقَالَ لِي: بَارَكَ اللهُ لَكَ، أَوْ قَالَ خَيْرًا

Translation

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  1. al-Qawārīrī
  2. Ḥammād
  3. ʿAmr
  4. Jābir

✧ My father died and left seven daughters or nine daughters—Hammad said: And I only think he said nine—so I married a previously married woman. The Messenger of God ﷺ said to me: “Have you married, O Jabir?” I said: “Yes.” He said: “A virgin or a previously married woman?” I said: “A previously married woman.” He said: “Why not a young girl so that you could play with her and she could play with you?” or he said: “so that you could laugh with her and she could laugh with you?” He said: I said: “'Abd Allah died and left nine daughters, and I disliked bringing them someone like them, so I wanted a woman who could take care of them.” He said to me: “May God bless you,” or he said something good.

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