Mishkat al-Masabih 3107
Looking at a Woman who is asked in Marriage, and an Explanation of what may not be seen - Section 2
وَعَنِ الْمُغِيرَةِ بْنِ شُعْبَةَ قَالَ خَطَبْتُ امْرَأَةً فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ: «هَلْ نَظَرْتَ إِلَيْهَا؟» قُلْتُ: لَا قَالَ: «فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا فَإِنَّهُ أَحْرَى أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا». رَوَاهُ أَحْمَدُ وَالتِّرْمِذِيُّ وَالنَّسَائِيُّ وَابْنُ مَاجَهْ وَالدَّارِمِيُّ
Translation
Al-Mughira b. Shu'ba said: I asked a woman in marriage and God’s Messenger asked me whether I had looked at her. When I replied that I had not, he said, “Then look at her, for it is better that there should be love between you.” Ahmad, Tirmidhi, Nasa'i, Ibn Majah and Darimi transmitted it.
Grades by grader
| Abu Ghuddah | Sahihgraded on nasai:3235 | fawazahmed0 |
|---|---|---|
| Zubair Ali Zai | Soundgraded on nasai:3235 | fawazahmed0, hadithunlocked, sunnah.com |
| al-Albani | Soundin صحيح النسائي, p. 3235graded on nasai:3235 | fawazahmed0, hadithunlocked |
| ابن الملقن | Soundin سنن النسائي, p. 3237graded on nasai:3235 | hadithunlocked |
Same hadith, other wordings
- Musnad Ahmad 18154خَطَبْتُ امْرَأَةً، فَقَالَ لِي رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ: أَنَظَرْتَ إِلَيْهَا ؟ قُلْتُ: لَا، قَالَ: فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا، فَإِنَّهُ أَحْرَى أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا
- Sunan an-Nasa'i 3235خَطَبْتُ امْرَأَةً عَلَى عَهْدِ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ فَقَالَ النَّبِيُّ ﷺ أَنَظَرْتَ إِلَيْهَا قُلْتُ لاَ قَالَ فَانْظُرْ إِلَيْهَا فَإِنَّهُ أَجْدَرُ أَنْ يُؤْدَمَ بَيْنَكُمَا