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Sahih Ibn Hibban 425

✧ The right of parents

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أَخْبَرَنَا أَبُو يَعْلَى قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو خَيْثَمَةَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا إِسْمَاعِيلُ بْنُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَطَاءُ بْنُ السَّائِبِ عَنْ أَبِي عَبْدِ الرَّحْمَنِ السُّلَمِيِّ

أَنَّ رَجُلًا أَتَى أَبَا الدَّرْدَاءِ فقَالَ إِنَّ أَبِي لَمْ يَزَلْ بِي حَتَّى تَزَوَّجْتُ وَإِنَّهُ الْآنَ يَأْمُرُنِي بِطَلَاقِهَا قَالَ مَا أَنَا بِالَّذِي آمُرُكَ أَنْ تَعُقَّ وَالِدَكَ وَلَا أَنَا بِالَّذِي آمُرُكَ أَنْ تُطَلِّقَ امْرَأَتَكَ غَيْرَ أَنَّكَ إِنْ شِئْتَ حَدَّثْتُكَ مَا سَمِعْتُ مِنْ رَسُولِ اللَّهِ ﷺ سَمِعْتُهُ يَقُولُ «الْوَالِدُ أَوْسَطُ أَبْوَابِ الْجَنَّةِ فَحَافِظْ عَلَى ذَلِكَ إِنْ شِئْتَ أَوْ دَعْ»

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Abū Yaʿlá
  2. Abū Khaythamah
  3. Ismāʿīl b. Ibrāhīm
  4. ʿAṭāʾ b. al-Sāʾib
  5. Abū ʿAbd al-Raḥman al-Sulamī

✧ A man came to Abu al-Darda' and said, “My father kept at me until I married, and now he commands me to divorce her.” He said, “I am not one to command you to disobey your father, nor am I one to command you to divorce your wife. But if you wish, I will tell you what I heard from the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. I heard him say, ‘The parent is the middle gate of Paradise, so guard that gate if you wish, or leave it.’”

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