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Musnad Ahmad 26790

Khansa bt. Khidham

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قَرَأْتُ عَلَى يَعْقُوبَ بْنِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا أَبِي عَنِ ابْنِ إِسْحَاقَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي الْحَجَّاجُ بْنُ السَّائِبِ بْنِ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ بْنِ عَبْدِ الْمُنْذِرِ الْأَنْصَارِيُّ أَنَّ جَدَّتَهُ أُمَّ السَّائِبِ خُنَاسَ بِنْتِ خِذَامِ بْنِ خَالِدٍ

كَانَتْ عِنْدَ رَجُلٍ قَبْلَ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ تَأَيَّمَتْ مِنْهُ، فَزَوَّجَهَا أَبُوهَا خِذَامُ بْنُ خَالِدٍ رَجُلًا مِنْ بَنِي عَمْرِو بْنِ عَوْفِ بْنِ الْخَزْرَجِ. فَأَبَتْ إِلَّا أَنْ تَحُطَّ إِلَى أَبِي لُبَابَةَ، وَأَبَى أَبُوهَا إِلَّا أَنْ يُلْزِمَهَا الْعَوْفِيَّ، حَتَّى ارْتَفَعَ أَمْرُهُمَا إِلَى رَسُولِ اللهِ ﷺ، فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللهِ ﷺ: هِيَ أَوْلَى بِأَمْرِهَا، فَأَلْحَقَهَا بِهَوَاهَا ! قَالَ: فَانْتُزِعَتْ مِنَ الْعَوْفِيِّ، وَتَزَوَّجَتْ أَبَا لُبَابَةَ، فَوَلَدَتْ لَهُ السَّائِبَ بْنَ أَبِي لُبَابَةَ

Translation

Chain of narrators
  1. Yaʿqūb b. Ibrāhīm
  2. my father
  3. Ibn Isḥāq
  4. al-Ḥajjāj b. al-Sāʾib b. Abū Lubābah b. ʿAbd al-Mundhir al-Anṣārī
  5. Jaddatah Um al-Sāʾib Khunās Bint Khidhām b. Khālid

✧ She had been with a man before Abu Lubabah and had become husbandless from him. Her father Khidham b. Khalid married her to a man from Banu ‘Amr b. ‘Awf b. al-Khazraj. She refused unless she could go down to Abu Lubabah, and her father refused unless he bound her to the ‘Awfi, until their matter was brought up to the Messenger of Allah ﷺ. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ said: “She is more entitled to her own affair,” and he joined her to her desire. He said: She was taken away from the ‘Awfi, and she married Abu Lubabah and bore him al-Sa’ib b. Abi Lubabah.

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