Al-Adab Al-Mufrad 545
When someone has love for a person, he should not quarrel with him nor ask about him
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حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللهِ بْنُ صَالِحٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِي مُعَاوِيَةُ أَنَّ أَبَا الزَّاهِرِيَّةِ حَدَّثَهُ عَنْ جُبَيْرِ بْنِ نُفَيْرٍ عَنْ مُعَاذِ بْنِ جَبَلٍ
أَنَّهُ قَالَ إِذَا أَحْبَبْتَ أَخًا فَلاَ تُمَارِهِ وَلاَ تُشَارِّهِ وَلاَ تَسْأَلْ عَنْهُ فَعَسَى أَنْ تُوَافِيَ لَهُ عَدُوًّا فَيُخْبِرَكَ بِمَا لَيْسَ فِيهِ فَيُفَرِّقَ بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ
Translation
✧ He said, "If you love a brother, do not dispute with him, do not quarrel with him, and do not ask about him; for perhaps you will meet an enemy of his and he will tell you what is not true of him, and thus cause division between you and him."
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